In my Birthday my mother asked me what I wanted to do today, and I said I wanted to eat at home. Actually, that day for me personally does not matter much. But that was the day when my mother gave birth to me. To my mother the day I was born was much heavier than what I was aware of my birthday.
So that day I always determined to be mother's day. Whatever you want, whatever you can do to make me happy, I'll nod.
My life is fortunate in that I can soon understand my parents' hearts before I am unmarried and childless. That's why I understand that the youth of most people ignore their mother's thoughts a lot. At that time everyone wants to have a lover, then they will come to family and children again. By the time I understood what my mother was going through, it was too late.
My parents were born in a time when the country still had no market economy to think that every human being needed to professionalize and what could not be paid for another. Dad repaired almost everything in his house, except electronics. And mother is both a cook, has managed tons of nameless errands like attaching buttons. It felt as if just those two people were all waves of life.
My generation is the generation of great ideological people who think of becoming something in the eyes of society. When I was young, I did not understand who I was out there, but my mother just wanted to know that I was her child, understood my parents' mature lessons, and finally came to her mother to hold her grandchild.
This life may not all women need to be independent, but everyone will experience youth and maturity. Even if marriage is the last and final landing, do not forget that life still has other wonderful experiences such as the journey of motherhood.
Definitely become mothers that when your child tells you about them, they will speak with an admiring gaze.
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In the eyes of children, whether young or old, they are still the first woman, the most wonderful woman and the woman they will remember until the end of their life, decades later. when you are no longer here.
One of the greatest love in the world I have, is for my mother.