My grandmother, I miss you so much
Assalamu Alaikum,
How are you all? I hope by the grace of God everyone is well. I am also well by the grace of God.
Today, almost a year later, I met my grandmother. It cannot be said that I was very happy to see my grandmother. In fact, I do not get a chance to meet after marriage. And my grandmother doesn't live with my parents. In fact, my grandmother does not live with anyone, she lives alone and is not dependent on anyone. So anyway, first I give the identity of my grandmother. The picture you see above is of my grandmother. In fact, my grandmother is old-fashioned. You can all understand by looking at the picture.
My grandmother has suffered a lot in her life. In fact, my grandfather left this world many years ago. My grandmother has 4 children. Two sons and two daughters. My two aunts got married and moved to the next house and my uncle got separated soon after the marriage. The rest is my father. My father used to live far away from my grandfather's house after marriage. In fact, my grandfather's home is Nalta. And my father used to live in Satkhira. Those of you who know the place may understand how far it is. Anyway, my father used to tell my grandmother to come to our house but my grandmother doesn't want to depend on anyone so she doesn't go to anyone, she stays alone.
I haven't received much of my grandmother's affection since I was born. Sometimes I would go to my grandfather's house and have a lot of fun going there, but after my marriage that opportunity did not come again. So now when I go to my father's house, I go there, call my grandmother and she leaves and we meet there. Sometimes I wonder why my grandmother suffers so much. Seto boys can only be in the family. But why not. One day after my grandfather died, I asked my grandmother why you still suffer so much. If you are with two boys, you don't have to suffer anymore, and if you are not with your uncle, you can be with my father. In reply my grandmother told me that you do not understand these things because I can still work and eat on my own. Now I will not be a burden on the shoulders of others. I am not willing to listen to anyone's big words. So I was surprised to hear what Grandma Jama was saying. In fact now I understand exactly what my grandmother meant to me. My grandmother has suffered a lot all her life. She has made her son and daughter human and married them. Now they have a separate family. Yet my grandmother is still alone, she still suffers a lot. He runs his stomach with what he earns. You may also know that people in rural areas raise chickens, cows and goats, so my grandmother raised chickens, cows and goats, and the family left with the benefit of it.
In fact, my grandmother's idea is that if there is any boy or girl in the family, there will be unrest in their family. If he becomes a burden on their shoulders. In fact, he does not live in anyone's family thinking about these things. He lives alone. My grandmother doesn't really want to be dependent on others. As long as I can work and eat my grandmother's words, I will not depend on others. When I can't, if a boy or a girl sees me, I will die like this.
Sometimes it is very difficult to see my grandmother, in fact we are very old. She needs to rest now but my grandmother doesn't listen to anyone. However, I always pray to God that my grandmother's body will always be healthy. You will also pray that my grandmother stays healthy and normal.
Finally I want to say that I love my grandmother very much and I miss my grandmother very much.
So friends so far today. I wish you all the best. God bless you.