Talk about rubbing salt in my wounds - d'oh!
Assalamu Alaikum,
How is everyone? Hope everybody is doing very well and healthy. I'm much better.
Girl means to hold thousands of sorrows in her chest. To be happy with the happiness of others. To give up one's own desires. Facing him with thousands of questions. Girl means thousands of worries to someone.
Girl means to check whether she is black or fair as soon as she is born. If it is black, there is no end to the worries of parents. Thousands of thoughts about who will marry a black girl fall on the shoulders of parents. But they think that the girl has become what she is yesterday. We make her a good person, teach her to study, establish her on her own feet. If a girl learns to read and can stand on her own two feet, the boys will go after her to marry her. But some parents may find peace if they can hand over the girl to the next boy before she grows up. During the marriage of a black girl, many times the people of the boy's side demand fifteen and the parents of the girl pay the dowry.
Girl means to endure all the hardships in silence. When a girl reaches the age of 18, she starts seeing a boy. The girl has to get married. A girl goes to her father-in-law's house after marriage. There, the mother-in-law of the father-in-law has to keep everyone in mind. Finding your own smile in their smile is like being saddened by their grief. The mother-in-law, the mother-in-law, who woke up that morning to do household chores, to take care of everyone, to take care of the children, to listen to what you do all day long at the end of the day. After marrying a girl, the in-laws have to listen to everyone. Even though she loses her freedom, she endures everything with a silent smile. This is the religion of girls. If you protest against someone's words, you must hear that the girl does not listen to the bad girl, her parents did not give her that education. If you can't do any work, your mother didn't teach you anything without teaching you. Did you just eat and sleep in your father's house? Even after hearing so much, it is the destiny of girls to have to endure everything face to face.
If a girl laughs and talks to a boy friend on the street, the news reaches her parents before she reaches home. Girls don't have to have any boyfriends. Because no one ever wants to understand or try to understand the suffering and desires of girls. Girls endure all the hardships in the world only if available from someone.
Girl means if the husband is good after marriage then the fortune is good and if the husband is bad then there is inhuman torture helplessness. The life of a girl is to survive as a living corpse after enduring so much suffering and torture. I am a girl so I am telling you how much pain girls have to endure with a silent smile.
Finally, I will say that there is no end to the suffering of girls. But if we try, we can save the girls from the troubles. If we can respect them, educate them and establish them on their own feet, then girls do not have to suffer so much. But how many of us understand these things. But in my opinion girls should be respected because girls are mothers.
So friends so far today. I wish you all good health. Thank you all very much.
God bless you