Then we are on the same page! Coffee, can't live without it... I mean you can but it's no good and life is sleepy :D

I'm glad that you understand. I had some trouble at the very start of my career. I could not ask the right questions and after the wrong questions and also answers, I would always get the wrong results. It drove me crazy but now I handle it nicely.
Also, your last sentence is so true. It sounds weird but you just have to do it. Without that technique, we might run in circles for months.