Sensual, ¿solo cuestión de belleza?/Sensual, just a matter of beauty? (ESP/ENG)

A new week and a new word, this time they have left my mouth open with the choice of this time in the community @POB (Hive account@hive-150329) definitely want to put us to use our brains and this is wonderful, since my friend Hive account@morenow, supply me the publication I'm thinking, until I said: "if I do not sit down and start to shape it nothing will ever come out", for those who want to know a little more of the community and this contest well here I leave the publication with the winners of last week's word and also the guidelines for your participation to be valid.

The word chosen this week is Sensual, this makes me think that many sometimes confuse sexual with vulgar and I think that sometimes a very thin line separates one thing from the other and, as usual I will use as an illustration of something that happens a lot, the ladies to operate the breasts and put prostheses, it is normal to want to show them off but often instead of getting to look sexy, bordering on vulgarity and exhibitionism, I myself made this mistake, hahaha; Now it makes me laugh, but I remember it, I see the pictures and I wonder what was in your head at that time girl? , Mistakes are made, but recognizing and correcting them is something that not everyone does.

Now how do you define sensual, this word is closely related to sexual arousal, liking and attracting others, if you read some articles about it, you will find that the sexuality of people in some cases is something innate, as it is linked to self-confidence, personal acceptance, self-esteem, among others, but also talk that it is something that can be developed, here I share a link to a article web that caught my attention if you want to read it.

Now sensuality for me, is applicable to many areas, not only to the physical or sexual, as we talk about liking others, obviously there are people who are so sure of themselves, well planted. breathe sensuality and this is not necessarily directly related to beauty, I know ugly men, but so confident, nice, well dressed and perfumed, that please a lot of women and much more than others who are handsome, but dumb or as I call them unsalted bread.

Being sensual or transmitting sensuality, is something that can be learned but it is also something that can ridicule or even expose you, if you do not know how to do it or you exaggerate, this makes me remember a scene from the movie "Legally Blonde" in which she explains, if I remember correctly to the manicurist of the beauty salon, a series of steps to get the attention of the man she likes, so this when she puts it in motion generates a series of things that result in disaster and grace, but that for the manicurist, in the movie generate results.

The example given in the previous paragraph, makes me come to a conclusion that you must first accept yourself, love yourself, love you, maybe improve or correct what you do not like, but if you do not accept yourself, and exploit those good things that you know you have, you will not be able to express sensuality and if you try to do it when you feel insecure, or think you will make a fool of yourself, you will probably do it because you mentally programmed yourself for it and you could end up making a total and absolute fool of yourself.

Finally, I want to leave here a definition to support my publication.

It is called sensuality (a term that comes from the Latin sensualĭtas), therefore, to the quality that favors sexual stimulation. In the case of individuals, sensuality is associated with personality and physical appearance: when these two factors succeed in arousing sexual desire in other individuals, the person is said to be sensual.

In conclusion, sensuality, can come with you from birth, but you can also develop it, improve it and even learn it, but first it maters and grows for you, so I retire waiting for your words in the comment box.