Have you ever stopped to realize how strange we humans are, we act strangely... When we are alive we fight with each other, we point fingers, we talk bad about people, we don't help anyone... they give flowers to the dead who feel nothing, no see and even sanctify them.
The most honored are the dead that nothing can feel... another strange attitude is that people do not visit the living, but they want to visit the tombs, and treat that place with greater delicacy. And he has enough time to do anything for the dead, but when he's alive they don't even care.
People have more value when they die than when they're alive, and that's pretty weird...
Many beautiful words, and beautiful tributes are made when the loved one is no longer with us. As much as people say it's normal, I'm sorry for my sincerity... but I don't agree.
I believe people want to know that they are special when they are live, they want to receive flowers when they live, they want to be honored when they live... after death everything we do to them doesn't make any sense.