Do not mind anything that anyone tells you about anyone else. Judge everyone and everything for yourself.
~ Henry James
We all talk about everyone else and we all judge everyone else however it's always going to be a one-sided reality if we judge all beings and all things based on what we heard from other people or read about things we haven't seen or experienced ourselves.
The Christian Bible and other religious doctrines made it clear that we should not judge anyone or anything but the fact is that we humans seem not to be able to adhere to such saying, even when the church was at its higher peak power they still couldn't go without judging those who don't accept their doctrines and isolating them which violates a lot of things too but that's not going to be discussed here now, maybe some time or never.
What is important is that judging people is something we all can't do without doing. We judge our partner, parent, peers and neighbours based on a whole lot of what we've heard about them, mostly heard from others.
Doing this is something that has caused a whole lot of problems in people's lives and relationships with people. Some would go as far as to even create a rift between two people that it'll lead to violence and possibly lead to the death of one of them, only for the killer to realize it was the third person who got in-between them.
This type of situation can't be reversed or squashed and leaves a scar on one's soul, as it is not possible to revive the dead person.
A whole lot of relationships have been broken due to one person hearing wrong information about another person and judging based on such intel that's not accurate.
Most people nowadays would prefer to ask another person about you than to come over to you and ask about what they have heard or wish to know about you.
Only a few do this. Most fancy the gossips that they want them to be true no matter how ridiculous they may sound at times.
The online world is becoming more and more toxic you can hear a whole lot of information about anyone that you've never met before and none of those information are true. And people judge these people based on what they think they read online. Some judge based on what an A. I blab out to them.
The creation of false information started the moment we don't want to take a minute of our time to verify whatever we've heard about something or someone and not judge based on our findings and intelligence.
A whole lot of information biases and wars that are neverending have been created because we don't judge everything and everyone ourselves but based on other people's judgement of people and things.
Do you judge things and people by yourself or by someone else perception of what's true?
What do you think about the concept of judgement making? Share your thoughts in the comments