The mental relaxation we provide while concentrating on a particular subject and sharing our thoughts enables us to become stronger against the difficulties of life. While our problems may differ due to the challenges we face, our solutions may show similarities. The problem is getting hungry, the solution is food, food! Of course, this will not be as simple and easy, but since straight logic will be in a similar framework, it will be a natural reaction to produce instinctive solutions to problems.
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Certain solutions, such as getting away from a place where you are not treated well, quitting a job you don't like doing, and stopping wasting time with someone you don't like, are better than procrastinating all the time. It would be better to try to solve the problem immediately than to postpone it again. Since every postponed problem will appear again and again in the future, it is possible to encounter a mountain of problems and to get into a life crisis as a result of this.
A gangrenous arm needs to be amputated immediately because when expected it becomes a life-threatening and growing problem. Nobody wants to lose their arm out of nowhere, but when the situation gets worse, they don't hesitate in such a decision. Because he has no time to mourn the arm that is gone at that moment, as he will have his own life to save. The problem is there, the solution is a sharp decision. A decision not made or a late decision will deepen the problem.
In a loving marriage that started with good hopes for the future, it is inevitable to make similar decisions when things go wrong. Either solutions will be found and the problem will be resolved permanently, or the marriage will be terminated with a sharper decision.
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Almost all of our lives are full of similar problems or solutions to problems or decisions that will completely eliminate the problem. The decision that we do not question the correctness of momentarily, may also contain regrets after the time passed and the experience gained. It may include regrets in the decision not taken or taken late. These are purely vital journeys. It is the bittersweet side of his journey. Everyone's bitter and sweet will contain a proportional reflection of their own life. More or less.
A mental discharge brings with it physical relaxation. The command center of our body, which has a hierarchical order, is the brain, but it needs the support of vital organs such as the heart and lungs that feed it. The arm or the leg can be given up, but the leading organs during vital importance cannot be given up. Just like our children born out of marriages that ended. Marriage may end, but parenthood will continue for life. The child is much more important than an organ that we can give up when we have to in order to continue in life. I can't give up and I can't include those who give up as parents!
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