Yesterday was privileged to spent some quality time with some young people, it was really an awesome experience, we fellowshipped together and it was indeed a refreshing moment.
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we was a remarkable time of fellowship, one have not had in a very long while and am grateful, i had it yesterday. the wonderful time out would have been in the afternoon but due to my busy schedule and the sensitivity of time, we had to make it a late night meeting.
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at about 10:30pm or there about the meeting began and lasted for about 6 hours, a young lady took us in the opening segment of the meeting and she did it exceptionally beautiful, and of cause that happened to be my first direct contact with most of them who were privilege to be in that meeting, I was very much impress by her exceptional performance, at another time in the meeting, a separate individual still in the list of my first contact was given a time to carry out an agendum in the agenda of the night, i also saw another unique dimension of excellence captured in his performance and was far different from the first one, this act dropped a critical thought in my heart which brought about many questions in my heart, and one among the many questions was "What are the factors that are responsible for the unique performance?", i could not really figure out in my mind so i had to create a break out session kind off, so as to know what is responsible for the amazing performance in their unique nature.
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in the break out session, i was careful to select some unique identities including the two of them to the same group, good enough the group was to be handled by me. we started our discussion and every one including me was to share in summary, their life experience capturing the environment, situation, circumstance surrounding their growth system and the impact it has created.
Remember my interest was really on the two i already sported while at the general meeting. so we began to share passionately, I carefully listen to all of them and in summary the one who had the exceptionally beautiful performance, at the opening session grew up in an unsmilingly difficult environment, she was exposed to very harsh condition of growth, it was a normal for her, so it was not an option for her to engage life with ease but with every thing that she has, so for her life is now, not tomorrow, so she will always and at all times give in her all, because she does not know what tomorrow holes for her.
At the other hand, the one who had a dimension of excellence which was unique in his performance, also did share and in his line of story, i deducted that he had one of the best environment anyone can wish to have, He was showered with all availabilities, highly designed and articulated opportunities were available for him and with no stress at all. He could get what so ever he would want to have, all it takes is just a tap on the key and it is done.
In my conclusion i found out something you would really find interesting, i know when am done, you will thank me for it, their both performance were exclusively unique to their person, One may be tempted to go with the believe that, this was how nature designed it to be, some may also want to argue but listen to my discovery.
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Every man on earth is a packaged potentials, it will not show on you at birth, this potentials do not just respond because of desire or by wishes but it takes deliberate effort to bring it forth. This is the truth and you can not change it even when you do not agree with it, Gold as treasurable as it is ever appreciate at the very raw state, because there is no comeliness to behold until it is undergo the refinery processes. The young girl who was privileged to through the tough and difficult growth environment happens to be like raw material who has gone through the refinery, She went through all the wriggle of purification, molding and structural fabrication, like the crude oil, more than petrol will be the end product and will function in various capacity. we can see that the so called difficult situations help to bring out the very best of the potentials that was looked in the inside.
The other young man had what we would call a beautiful upbringing, life was full of flavor but the inputted potentials were not taped, he could only give the best of him to the degree at which life has made available to him, like people will say, "you only give what you have". The both of them actually had something to offer but definitely not the same in value, this may be useful to you in a way wisdom demands that appropriate steps be taken and more so at the right time, to avoid hade i know.
I will leave at this to figure out the realities around your life, is it actually true that tough time builds strong people?, what has been your experience, lets engage, this for someone could be a chat for a new course.
