when we struggle against the natural rhythm of life we create resistance and opposition and this is what leads to struggle.
In struggle there's no joy and rarely reward infact, for some people, struggles is the reward, they are a little lost without it.
Life is something that requires a considerable amount of physical and mental effort in this life things happen around us but the only thing truly matters how to choose to or react to it and what you make out of it.
Life is all about learning, adopting, converting all the struggle that we experienced into something new.
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This story talk about a certain daughter who complained to her father that her life was miserable and that she didn't know how she was going to make it.
She was tired of fighting and struggling all the time it seemed just as one problem was solve another one soon followed.
Her father, a chef took her the kitchen. He filled three pot with water and place each on a high fire once the three pot began to boil, he place potatoes in one pot, eggs in the second pot and coffee beans in the third pot.
He then let them seat and boil without saying a word to his daughter. The daughter impatiently waited wondering what he was doing.
After 35 minutes he turned off burners. He pulled out and place them in a bowel. He then ladled the coffee out and place it in a cup the father asked the child what do you see " potatoes, eggs, and coffee, the daughter touch the potatoes and discover it so soft.
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She was ask to break the eggs and she experience hard boiled eggs. The father asked her to sip the coffee.
It aroma brought smile to her face the girl asked, father what's the meaning of this, he then reply that the potatoes, the eggs and coffee beans had each face the adversity. The bold water.
However each one reacted differently in life, things happen around us, things happen to us, but the only thing that truly matters is how you make out of it.
Moreover don't forget that Life is all about learning, adopting and converting all the struggles that we experienced into something positive.