Our haste, rush, stress, discomfort, lack of time, lack of attention to the family, all these things children absorb and soak with it, they are sponges that we should absorb the best of energies, they are in full development and growth, and if we do not control our emotions in front of them, they will give similar responses to our nervousness, to our accelerated life, and it is not fair.
The worrying thing is that we want to get angry when children develop behaviors of tantrums, irritability or disobedience, we must look at the way we act towards them, we think they do not pay attention, but, if they do, and a lot, for example, in some cases when we are in a hurry or angry children get more angry and are disobedient, it is what we are transmitting, an unfriendly energy for them, let us be sources of joy and enjoyment for children.
Our greatest treasure is our children, and we must take care of them in the best way, and if we want the best harmony for our home, we have to give it to the children, and this begins when we have serenity in what we do, and especially if we are close to them, one of the things we should try is to create in our children daily habits, this makes them behave more calm, their mind has certainty of what they do and what comes next, with exceptions.
There are parents who do not maintain some routines or habits adapted to the children, and they remain expectant, which accelerates and unbalances their harmony, there are many activities that we can soak that help manage the behavior of our children, activities that allow them to associate that they are prepared to do something, such as washing their hands, then go to eat, enjoy some reading later, and to prepare for a nap.
Children when they are taught the use of harmony, will act in the same way, without shouting and abuse, remember that they are our children and deserve all our respect and above all true affection, one that teaches them the noble respect which is achieved with love, with gratitude for the good treatment, be kind, and practice it in family, everything should be asked with a please, are small details that make the development of a great harmony in children, and so in our homes where we live as a family.