We are required to make choices every day. Everything we do is based on the choices we make. Even if you think you were forced to do something bowing down to the force was your final decision you had the option of standing up for what you believed in. Every choice is yours, entirely yours. You could choose to be a victim or victor, it is completely in your hands.
If you have noticed there are so many who have faced the same tragedies as you, some have risen above their situations and lived their life to their fullest potential. Others have been caught up in the quagmire of their emotions and self-pity and live as if they were the walking dead.
Many have risen about the circumstances and with hope and determination to face the future, while others have sunk deep into depression and despair. I have seen many look at others and believe that they were born with a silver spoon in their mouth or luck was on their side.
Some make the best of every day. They work hard to find opportunities that don't exist. They persist and endure until they are the last ones standing. While others merely exist.
You can choose to rise above the situation or let the situation or let your situation overwhelm you. The choice is yours alone to whine and cry or make it through.
You could let what happened to you decide your future or you build your future with bricks of hope, hard work, and never give up attitude.
You could allow the past to dictate your present or let your decisions of today negate the past.
Everyone has a story, some chose to show the sunny side up, while others love clouds and storms to overshadow them, the choice is yours again.
Your present decides your future let your past be in the past, make sure your every decision counts to make your future bright and sound.
Being accountable to ourselves is the most important thing we need to do. Being accountable means being able to make the right decisions and stand by what we believe in.
Those that are ready to face every curveball that comes their way know which one to pick to make their mark. They study everything that comes their way paying attention to detail.
They choose their battles and fight for what is important, they save their energy for productive action.
Negativity and blame are not their games, taking calculated risks while being disciplined is their style.
Easy come easy go is not the way they live, they don't look for instant results they know they got to work their way up and it's a process.
You have just one life to live, it's important to live it well.
Thanks for taking the time to read.