"Owing to that, I must suffer to gain......"
He has started life well, to this, one would say, he was born with a spoon in his mouth," which is contrary to what others have been experiencing. Cars, money💰, houses🏠, food and luxurious life is none of his problem. To receive for free is different from to keep and conserved.
He was brought up in a in a poor manner so how can even learn how to plan well? With all the possession on his side, he felt that is the end of the world, forgetting that life a long journey full of obstructions. It is true that to get things easy, you also spend them easy. Everyday becomes a party with friends, moving from one club to another. Money flows like waters.
Money which does not work depreciate with time, let to talk of squandering with friends. After two months, he has emptied the pocket. The next was to look out for ways to get what would sustain him and keep him with the normal lives with friends. Sadly, the only option was to sell the car. The class and status he reached he felt ashamed to lower himself. After sell the car, he moved on with the normal life with friends.
Within the next month, I he was broke again, so the next was to sell the house and increase his expenses by sleeping in hotels since he had no option. After the money from the house he sold was used up, he began live in tears since all his friends took to their heel. They didn't want to come close to him. Someone who wallowing with money now became broke.
As elders says, it's painful to be at your end, than to be broke at your beginning. Time has pasts and far spent. He had to now beg to survive.
From the first time I heard his story, I advice myself never to be content with what I meet for free or given for free; but to challenge myself and suffer to gain!