Sometimes our advice and criticisms for a project or for someone can make them hate us. Yeah! I find it funny when we try to give advice and criticism for a project, or someone can make them hate us. Even though we try to give advice and criticisms just to help fix what went wrong.
What is advice?
Some people really like being given advice, because advice is a solution aimed at solving the problems at hand. But most people don't really like being given advice, because they think they can solve their problems without other people's advice. And sometimes the funny thing is that when we give advice, we get hated by them.
What is criticism?
If I think, criticism is an opinion based on someone's judgment of something. A criticism is spoken or written by someone with the aim of making something he judges better. Sometimes, a criticism contains a bitter truth that is unpleasant to hear and can even hurt the heart. But, no matter how harsh a criticism sounds to the ear, criticism is still criticism. Just because a critique contains heart-wrenching words, doesn't mean we can call it an insult.
But in general, people do not like criticism. A project team should be happy when their manager criticizes their performance. Because with this criticism, he knows to what extent his work has not been done. But the reality is not always the case. Just like a project manager who generally likes to be praised, but when given advice and criticized will get angry. Not infrequently we find a team or project manager who likes to be praised constantly and on the contrary gets angry when given advice, let alone criticism. We should accept criticism with grace, because from there we can make self-improvement. It's not easy and must be bitter. Like medicine for our health which must be bitter, criticism most be unpleasant.
I often see things like this in life, sometimes people who give advice or criticism are not worth it in their eyes. Because they think that they can solve their life's problems without needing other people's help. Try to imagine when we are born, we need the help of others to get us out of our mother's womb, when we grow up we also need the help of others to teach us to be smart people. And when we die, we also need the help of others to bury us. So in this life, we need each other.
Yeah! As well as the POB platform. When someone gives advice or criticizes, you don't have to hate them. Because they provide advice and criticism, not for things to destroy the POB platform. But they provide advice and criticisms to make the POB platform even better. And no matter how stupid their advice and criticisms are in the POB, you should be able to appreciate them.