In everything we are doing, no matter any body that we are living with, understanding matters most. There is one important rules in business (that's for whom wants to start a business). You search for a problem and then solve it.
What I mean by this is, before you could start a business you have to look for what people lack, the service they need that you can render then you solve their problem by rendering the service for them. That's just digression.
It normal to have misunderstanding or disagreement among ourselves but is expected of everyone to study each other so there will be no keeping of malice.
Had the opportunity to walk with a long time friend last week, she began to share me her experiences about getting roommate.
She had 5 room mates in 3years which they always get misunderstanding every time and during this period she couldn't have rest of mind because to stay home is a problem, either little or big thing will surely make them fight.
To some extent people began to complain about her stature, she was slim and getting weak. That's when I know that even if you are eating all sort of food in life that contain the 6 classes of food but without peace of mind it will just be like we are wasting the food.
The 6th roommate she will had is a friend indeed, they don't fight nor get discord or malice among themselves why? Because she has find solutions to the problem of roommates.
There was laid down rules before the lady came in as her roommate and till now they keep to it.
Getting our self involve in malice, unpleasant with anyone could make us weak physically. You need a smile on your face to make you look good. To someone people they don't always look good when they frown. Let's stop malice and take time to study ourselves that's the best way to look good.