Hi friends,
Life is unpredictable and unquestionable. The fact is that no matter how you try to understand life the less meaning you receive from life. For instance, who can predict and question the power of death and how it caught up with our beloved ones. Life doesn't give what you want but expects you to strive to achieve what you desire in life. It takes a gradual process and some experiences for we humans to understand what life is all about whether good or bad, now it is left for us to choose or to adhere to what life gives to us as time goes by it is what you do in life now that determines what it brings back in the future. Life is never on a shallow ground it goes so deep very far from what we think we can feel, now life comes with so many questions, bitter and sweet experiences, it is left for we humans to make it what we want it to be.
THE BITTER-SWEET EXPERIENCE OF LIFE
Experience they say is the best teacher but I'll tell you that experience brings a mix feelings to you. At times it's sweet and another time it becomes bitter. In Ola Rotimi' book titled "The God's are not to be blamed" the author asked a question, does rain fall on one roof alone? Life offers everyone equal time and but not opportunities. Some where born with silver spoon while others where born with wooden spoon. Naturally, everyone has equal 24 hours of the day, but the resources to utilize the time is not even. Remember that in the Animal Farm by George Orwell, he wrote that 'all animals are equal but some animals are more equal than the others'. I've had people crying and when you ask them if something bad had happened, they'll say no. They said it's tears of joy, what an irony of life. This means that the incidents surpassed their imagination bringing the bitter-sweet experience into play.
SEVEN RULES OF LIFE
- make peace with your past so that it won't disturb your present.
- what other people think of you is none of your business.
- Time heals almost everything give it time.
- the only person in charge of your happiness is you.
- Don't always come compare your life with others because comparison is the thief of joy.
- stop thinking too much it's right now to know all the answers.
- smile because you don't own all the problems in the world.
The Three stupid Stages Of Life
Teen age: - have Time+ energy but no money
Working age: - have money+energy but no time.
Old age: - have time+ money but no energy.
Now you must tell yourself no matter how hard it is in life or how hard and tough it gets you must make it in life, also know that if you focus on the hurts and hardtimes life gives to you, you'll suffer for long, but if you focus on the lessons it brings and make the necessary amends,then you'll continue to grow and become a better person. Thank you