Many people talk about relationships but do not know how to maintain them. They always try to prove themselves right by blaming others. And will they become right? This is the biggest question. It takes a lifetime to maintain a relationship and a moment is enough to break it.
I have a relationship like this with my sister-in-law, I tried a lot to improve this relationship. But my sister-in-law, her parents, sister-in-law's daughter, these people never maintained a good relationship. No matter how much I talk to her lovingly, she is always angry and always taunts me. And she starts crying on every small thing.
Her daughter, oh my God, was ready to fight all day. These days, for the last 6 to 7 years, they have shifted to another house, so I am very relieved. This is God's grace. So our conversation was completely stopped for almost 7 years.
Just a month ago, my sister-in-law's daughter got married and we were invited to the wedding. He also invited us because 4 months ago I had organized a puja in my house and I had invited him and he had come. That is why he also invited me, I went to his house with a very nice gift. He also behaved very well for two-four days. But on the wedding day, he behaved very strangely, I was very hurt.
Even then I ignored it, because I ignored it thinking that this relationship has no strength. This is a dead relationship, so it is not right to expect more from this relationship. Today we are standing here for the society, that much is enough.After completing the marriage, we came back to our home.
The next day, my sister-in-law's son called my husband and said, Uncle, are you fine? I am not feeling well, tell aunty to talk to mummy. You tell my husband that it is okay, I will tell him. After a while my son called, brother are you okay, are you not feeling lonely? Then he told my son, brother, it got spoiled because of mom and dad and your mom and dad. Now we three brothers together will strengthen this relationship and work as a pillar. We will meet every month and talk, I will push my mom to talk, you tell your mom to talk, then there will be talks, the relationship will be strengthened.
So my son got me to talk to my sister-in-law, then I got her call after 5 days. Then I talked to her again, after that her calls stopped coming. Otherwise my son met my sister-in-law's son who was messaging me. So my son said to him, what brother, your pillar turned out to be made of sand. Which collapsed within a month.
One has to make efforts throughout life to build relationships, it does not work with just one effort, so when relationships are made of light emotions like sand, then it will not take time for the emotions to end.
That is why I am saying that pillars made of sand will not last long. It is easy to say but difficult to implement