One point that struck me deeply in Counseling and the Sinfulness of Humanity was the author's discussion of the relationship between "self-esteem" and "human sinfulness." Modern society often encourages people to love and affirm themselves more, and many psychologists believe that if people feel better about themselves, many problems will naturally decrease. However, the author offers a very different perspective: he argues that the real problem isn't low self-esteem, but sin.
The text states, "People really are sinful to the core. The guilt and shame we all feel as sinners is legitimate, natural, and even appropriate" (page 96). In the past, I often thought I only made occasional mistakes, or that I did wrong things because of bad circumstances. But the author reminds me that humans are inherently sinful, and inner guilt and shame are not superfluous, but rather reasonable and natural reactions. This made me reflect on whether I, in my life and ministry, too easily make excuses or avoid admitting my mistakes. If I can accept my sinfulness, it will be easier to rely on God's grace to seek change, rather than simply relying on self-esteem or self-comfort. Therefore, I hope that when I face mistakes in the future, I can first honestly confront my shortcomings and learn and grow with humility and repentance. This way, I can more sincerely guide others to know God's salvation in my ministry.
The author also says, "True guilt has only one cause, and that is sin" (page 87). This reminds me that I used to think my guilt stemmed from my environment, others' expectations, or pressure, but true guilt originates from ourselves. I've begun to realize that in life and ministry, I sometimes avoid facing my mistakes or make excuses to cover up my shortcomings. This reminds me to be more honest with myself and to understand myself first when counseling or interacting with others in order to truly help them. It also reminds me to rely more on God's grace rather than solely on my own efforts to improve.
Finally, this article made me truly reflect that the sinful nature within us is actually the more fundamental cause.
Subject: Introduction to Biblical Counseling
Published by: Fang-Yu R, Hsu (Betty)