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Experience is such a thing that you come inside us with time, it is not something that will come inside you overnight, any person is perfect in something, then there are many disappointments behind it. Only then that person becomes perfect. Experience is also a very important thing in the things we need very much to move forward in life and to achieve success. Along with experience, you also need consistency, hard work and right direction, only then you can succeed. can achieve success. The person who has mastered all these things, the same person can be successful in today's time, it often happens that many people work hard but they are not able to succeed. Actually the thing is that we have to work together on all these things only then we can get success. Experience is such a thing that can be useful even where books are not useful. As we grow up, we keep experiencing new things, for example, when we go to school, we do not have any special experience of studies at that time, but as we grow up, we The reading experience keeps coming and we keep moving forward. We get so much while studying that we start knowing how to study and how much we have studied because when we make some mistakes and learn from them, then the same experience is the biggest teacher because In fact, no matter how much someone tells you, no matter how much someone teaches you, no matter how much knowledge is filled in you, but when you do not learn things from yourself and do not work on yourself, then all these things done go in vain.
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Many times it happens that others ask us to do many things because they have experienced that thing but we do not understand those things at that time because we are not in that stage and we do not have experience of those things. But when we experience those things ourselves, then we understand those things and at that time we also remember that that person had asked us to do so but we did not do it at that time.
Let me tell you about my life experience where I felt that experience was really a good teacher for me. This is about the time when I was preparing for a job after passing out from my college and my cousin lives at a distance from my house, at that time my cousin had gone to class 11th. When I was young, we could not meet much at that time, then gradually he was busy in his studies and I was also busy in my studies, then I went to another city for higher education and our conversation was very less. Used to do it but when I came home after college, our interaction started increasing, at that time my cousin was not doing well in studies because she did not have proper guidance which is very important for a child at that time, so I noticed this thing. I did and I started teaching him tuition and also started giving guidance. The best thing was that he agreed to study with me and his family members were also ready, so I used to study him daily and along with that I used to give him guidance, then slowly time passed and I taught him gave information about many things. In fact, when I was at his age, I did not have much guidance, due to which I missed a lot of things in my future, and I later regretted it, so the reason I felt that what happened to me was someone's fault. And when I saw a similar condition of my step as well, then I immediately realized that on the basis of the experience that happened with me, I could give some guidance to him.
Then slowly I told him a lot of things that how you have to prepare for the comptetive exam and which exams you have to prepare, along with this how to study in board exam, which topic to study more etc. I gave very detailed information about all those things which are the most important topics to read less and how to write and what points you have to keep in mind. Because I could not change what I experienced but I learned many things based on my experience and the same I shared with him. And after some time he passed 12th class with very good marks and with that he also got selected in a good college which was a matter of great happiness for him and his family. And I am also very happy that the boy who used to pass with a very low number has passed in 12th class with very good marks and he also got selected in a good college, although he also had a lot of hard work in this, only then he got selected. He was able to succeed there and followed my words with great importance, this is also a very important thing because if he remained unguided like before, he might not have passed with good marks, then really I felt at that time that my experience was very useful here and I also felt very proud.
And on the other hand, let me talk about an incident where I had no experience at all, so there are many incidents of which I had no experience at all, but there is one incident which is really very different and which I would like to share with you. So this is about the time when I was learning a new scooter and I had just learned the scooter for a few days, then I went out for a walk with a friend and when we covered a distance of about 20 kms from my home. When I had done this, my scooter suddenly stopped and even after trying a lot, it was not starting there. There was no shop around there, after a lot of difficulty, we pushed our scooter on foot to the mechanic's shop which was 3 to 4 kms from there and we came to know that there was a spark plug in the scooter, whose work is to ignite the fuel mixture and after ignition the engine of vehicle produces power, sometimes due to carbon deposits in it, it is not able to start the engine, due to which our scooter was also not able to start, and to do this thing, all you have to do here is to remove the spark plug from the scooter. If you take it out and clean it a bit, it starts working again. At that time I realized that if I had any previous experience of this thing than we would not have to walk so much and in this affair, we could not even go to the place where we were going to visit and came home after getting our scooter fixed.
So these two incidents were such in my life in which at one time I got the benefit of having experience and at other times I regretted not having experience and on the basis of these two I conclude that having experience is really very important in life. is because if a person has experience then he can do anything because in books only you get information until you like me you can't get perfection in that thing that's why experience along with reading It is very important and I also feel that there is a dire need of change in our education system also because I see that in our current education system, only children are being taught rote learning, they are not taught real life things. Experience is not given, due to which they remain far behind in higher education and then it takes a long time for them to get a job or to catch any skin and sometimes they do not even get success. So that's why along with reading books, practical experience is also very important because only experience is useful in real life.
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