There is no human being without a weak point. Some who are very stubborn and wicked have their weak points. They would be very wicked and even not allow people to draw closer to them, but with this habit in them, they still have their weak points.
The weak point is that thing that would bring you to total calmness or bring you to calmness.
We may be strong-hearted and stubborn in every aspect of life. We may even be a tiger or a lion, but we still have something we cannot be wicked to. Something that can bring us to our real senses.
I have seen a man who has this character of not allowing people to draw closer to him, but his wife is his weak point. He loves his wife so much and to the extent of not joking with her. No one would draw a feather so wide to make his wife suffer.
Back to the business of the day
My weak point is when my husband calls me a name that he gave to me. I have never given him any money, even when it is not mine, but anytime he calls me those names, I would feel so weak, and bringing the money from my bag would be so easy.
My husband has the key to my weaknesses, and no matter how angry I am, I can always calm down certainly after calling me those names.
Some time ago, when I was angry and vented my anger at my daughter, no one dared come near me when I was talking to her. I always rant and carry a whip just to make my anger calm, maybe after whipping her. Even after seeing my husband coming, I would listen to him, not until I heard that name.
One thing is for sure: everyone has different weak points, but mine is just extraordinary. I can say this because my husband is the one who can make it happen. He is the only one who can bring me down. So, there is always uniqueness attached to this name aside from all other names he does call me.
I don't need to visit the soothsayer before knowing that every one of you is dying to hear me pronounce the name. He has so many names he always calls me, but this particular one makes me so weak.
Some months ago, I went to the palace to see the queen just because of some issues. I heard people calling her “Her Majesty.” I got carried away and said, “This name can get the Queen to go gaga. But that was my guess anyway. I felt it was a good name to call the Queen.
I can hear the name outside, but it does not coming with that tune my husband used to pronounce it.
He would say, “My sunshine.” I know this one is common. He would say, “My rising sun.” This is also common and does not sound so palatable to my ear. He would crown it all by saying, “My magnificent," what! This is the name that no one had ever pronounced so well, apart from my husband.
We all have something that can make us weak (weak points) in life, no matter how tough we are. Mine is a different case. Most people would choose human beings, but this is what I found in me that can bring me down.
I have found it so fun and come to love it. Coping with it is an understatement because I have come to love this name badly, most especially the way my husband pronounces it.
I do call him these names as well because love, as they say, must be reciprocal. Extending my heart to him is great.