Bullying is bullying be it online or physical. One thing that is sure about it is that I want us to know that is very very bad. It has the ability to kill or even destroy someone's carrier which can lead to that person's death. Alot of people have lost their lives as a result of bullying and I can't suggest either online or physical bullying. None os good and I can't go with any.
We are in week 214 and episode 1. My dear if you have ever been bullied in your entire life or even seen someone who have been bullied, you won't support bullying either physical or online. I have been there before and I know how to feel to be among people and still be invisible. I know what it means for people to make you feel less of yourself. I know what it means for you not to be able to talk when you should because you are been bullied by the same people who you want to talk to. I know what it means for you to always feel bad, rejected, feel like you are nothing, feel like there is no hope for you any more. I have carried this burden for a very long time until I decided that enough is enough.
After I dropped out of school and I stayed at home for many years without going to school not because I wanted it so. But because of circumstances beyond me. All my friends from primary school continued their education and that automatically made me below them. I could not come close to some of them again. And there are these set of people that from day one they are bullies. Even when you are in the same level with them, they will still get something that will make them bully you. People like that if you mistakenly not measure up to their standard of life then you are in trouble already. I had these people close to me. Now that I dropped out of school they take the pleasure to always remind me of my level. They always tell me that I am behind. The reminder was coming constantly and all that I did was to move away from them and get others friends who understands me and encourages me to keep striving.
When I got tired of my situation and I also feel that I have what it takes to go back to school after been out of school for two decades. I decided to face the bull by the horn. It wasn't easy, but I made it to the top today. It took me time to get my self esteem again. Because of the bullying for years, inferiority complex took over me. There is this voice that kept speaking to me that I can't make again, but thank God because today I am a graduate with second class upper which some of them did not get.
NO BULLYING IS OKAY
I don't buy the idea of bullying at all, be it physical or online. Bullying is capable of destroying what one have suffered to build for many years. Bullying have the ability to make one lose a company, lose a life time savings, even lose sanity. We don't need to bully people to make a point. There is what we call constructive criticism. When we feel that there is something bad with what someone is doing or some people are doing. Correct them with love. Don't do your correction in such a way that you will bring the person down. I believe in this instead of bullying.
The image used here belongs to me. I used a friend's phone to snap it