Transfer of aggression is one thing that I dislike. I don't want a situation where people throw their anger towards others simply because another person has done the same thing to them. It could turn back to them tomorrow.
For this week 185 episode I. The topic says - Circle of Pain. This is a very special topic that affects our day to day life activities. Maybe you have not done it to someone else, you might also be at the receiving end. But which ever way, we need to address it so that we will not end up hurting the wrong people in our lives.
Sometimes they way we think affects our actions. If we don't put a check on our emotions, it will lead us into something that we did not see coming. When we look at it properly we will notice that we just most times pure our anger on the innocent ones.
Circle of pain exists and a lot of people are going through pains today because of what they know nothing about. I want to share from someone's life experience. This is so painful whenever I remember it. Though it did not happen to me directly, but I know is painful because I witness it.
A TRUE LIFE STORY
I was once opportuned to witness what happened to a guy years back. This guy was betrayed by his so much loved girlfriend. He so much love this girl that he have spent every thing he had on her. He don't just want to hear her talk about her need. He will make provisions immediately. He saw her through the university and for that period every thing was moving fine not until when she graduated and returned home. He noticed a distance from her. She became cold towards him. Don't call him again and even when he calls, she will not pick. She only returns his calls when she wants and most times she never allowed him to see her. She is always full of excuses as why she can't come to see him or even allow him come to her house. She continued until one day, the guy realized that she is getting married to another person. It broke his heart because he never wanted anything to do with another girl. It took him three years to get over her, but he was never ready to trust any lady again.
He decided to do same to another lady who never survived it. He dated her for some time. Promised her marriage and later disappointed her few months to their wedding. He did that purposely to hurt her because another lady had done the same thing to him. But this lady took her life because she couldn't bear the shame of her husband to be abandoning her months before wedding.
LESSONS FROM THIS STORY.
Never pure your anger on an innocent person. Allow God to take vengeance for us.
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