Series of discussions as arise on matters regarding abortion. If we look at the meaning of abortion, It simply means removal or evacuation of pregnancy. Abortion can either take place at the early stage or late stage of pregnancy. The removal of pregnancy at the early stage of pregnancy is the most commonest, why some go through the process at the late stage of the pregnancy without minding the risk.
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There are so many reasons why many people go for abortion. Some of the reasons include health challenges i.e high risk pregnancy which could lead to the death of the mother if the pregnancy is not evacuated as early as possible, other reasons are financial issues, not ready for parenthood which many disguise to tag mistake or accidental pregnancy 😂😂 i.e unplanned pregnancy
Giving birth to a child entails lot of preparation and readiness. One have to be prepared physically, psychology, financially and emotionally. Especially for a woman, motherhood is not a easy task, it entails preparation and readiness or else postpartum depression may set in when the pregnancy is not planned for.
As I do tell my friends, Look and observe well before saying yes to a guy. I do wonder when a girl and a boy all in the name of girlfriend and boyfriend impregnate each other and begin to cry that the pregnancy is a mistake and they don't plan for it. Most times I do wonder what they are both thinking before it lead to this. Imagine they both initiated the process of procreation by having sex and yet they said they don't want the pregnancy. I do tell ladies before allowing a man to sugar coat you and lure you to bed, ask him what plan does he have for you, is he ready to father a child if pregnancy shows up. But instead of that, many ladies will choose to follow their partners deceptive words all in the name of love. If you are not ready for pregnancy why not use protection or contraceptives pill instead. Why become the victim of unwanted pregnancy. Infact abstinence is the best.
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Fews years ago, there was this lady in my hotel who had an unwanted pregnancy. she went to abort the baby all because her so called boyfriend was not ready to father a child. After few months she got pregnant again and went to abort the baby. When I had of it, I was so sad, because she acted foolishly. Why would she put her life at risk because of an irresponsible guy? I told her that the guy would end up breaking her heart because all indications shows that the guy does not care about her, After few months the guy end up breaking up with her by marrying her close friend.
I discourage abortion because of the risk that comes with it, many have lost their precious lives while others have become barren as a result of this act. I do advice married women to go for family planning, this will help to reduce the rate of unwanted pregnancy.
The only reason why I can support abortion is if the pregnancy is life threatening to the woman and that's if it's the only procedure that can safe the life of the woman.
I believe it takes two to tangle. A woman cannot be impregnated without the man, If there are reasons for abortion I believe the man should be aware and the partners should both decide together.