Hello Hive Learners Community! Welcome to my blog. Everything we feel or anything we see has an impression independent of its good effects or bad effects. Being a Social Animal, we are addicted to living with our Human fellows. We can't stay away from human societies. It is the main reason we have to bear and share everything that our companions bring for us or that we do for them. There are many things we face in our lives due to our fellows. The impacts of these things vary; sometimes, their outcome is positive, and mostly, their outcome is negative.

Peer Pressure

Peer Pressure is a stressful situation generated by our fellows in different matters of life. Its outcome can be positive or negative depending on one's mentality. We should learn how to sort out negativities in our lives so that we observe things positively and wisely. I have many examples from my life where peer pressure proved to be fruitful for me.

A few years back, when I was a student in O' level. We were two fast friends and also toppers in our class. There were the best exam scores competition in the crash tests. Abdullah and his team fellows once insulted me when they topped the class. They also challenged me to exceed the marks in the next test. Their peer pressure was more stressful for me because I always respected them and liked to value my friendship. But Abdullah's intentions were different now. I cried inside to see his new face. In this pressurized condition, I decided to accept the challenge. I started doing hard work and burnt candles day and night. After fourteen days we both appeared in the crash test. I not only topped the class but also had new records. All thanks to peer pressure, I was excited by Abdullah for the Study Competition. If he would not exert pressure then this record was nearly impossible.

Hence, I decided if our peers pressurize us, then we should never feel disgraceful. We should challenge ourselves to get positive outcomes from peer pressure.

Final Thoughts

We live in a society where backstabbing, Jealousy, Hate, and Biasing are very common. It is human nature to always see toward the sky without noticing that we are giving pain to someone. We can't change the attitude or mentality of people. We can bring improvement in our personality. To improve standard of life, we need to believe in positivity. In our Society, there are many factors from our peers that pressurised us. There is no need to take this pressure in negative sense. We can wisely take it in positive manner. Hence instead of disturbing ourselves with negative thoughts, we need to keep ourselves calm. We should know how to bear peer pressure in the calm mood and how to get positive outcomes from it. This is what I learn from my school level. No jealous or peer pressure are not big deals for me. I always think positive sides that is all.

This post is my entry for HL Weekly Featured Content A Good Pressure. I hope you have enjoyed my post. Thanks!