Hello Hive Learners Community! Welcome to my blog. With Advancements in Science, people started rejecting different philosophies successfully.
This revolution helped human beings to overcome useless fears. Many Superstitious and Traditional People were the source of social stigmas, and they were very hard to deal with. They were following things that were only nonsense. Due to research and advancement in scientific processes, now it is easy to remove and control many social stigmas in our society. Our beliefs are strong and have logical reasons.
Is Igniting Candle source for bringing good Omen?
Although I belong to the heart of Pakistan I opened my eyes to a very traditional family. After completing my Graduation, I was able to delete many stigmas from my mind. In our lives, we all face directly or indirectly to these things. If we can overcome stigmas, we can live a fearless life; otherwise, they are predominant in our minds, and we spend miserable lives. Throughout our lives, we should learn how we can fight and move toward reality. Here I'm going to share how I successfully controlled a stigma gifted by my lover.
I respect all saints who served my religion. Once My lover invited me to the tomb of a famous Muslim Scholar. When I joined her company, I found her igniting candles in the tomb to get a good omen from God. I was 1st impressed but later confused to see this. She was busy igniting to please God so that He would accept us in Nikkah soon; it impressed me, but I was confused about how igniting a candle would send a positive message to God, and if not, igniting candles would favor His curse. Anyway, whenever We got any good news, she invited me to this thing as usual. I was forced to follow her because I couldn't make her angry by recommending anything against this stigma.
When we broke up, I visited that tomb to get a glimpse. But she was not there. I wasted my three years in the ignition of candles while she successfully married someone. Later, I came to realize that it was like a business there. Innocent people came and ignited candles and rewarded a huge amount to the tomb. There was a Magie behind this job.
After a few weeks when my mum suggested I visit that tomb to ignite candles. Although it was hard to expose the truth I shared every single detail with her. Later, I was able to convince her that igniting candles was just a waste of money and waste of time. God didn't need our candles to accept our prayers.
Here we can easily conclude that if we want to get rid of a stigma, 1st, we need to recognize it efficiently, then we need to take action on logical consequences. This is how the stigma of igniting candles vanished from my life.
Final Thoughts
Even in the 25th century, people are still surrounded by social stigmas. Literally, no one can help them to overcome them until they strive for it. We are modern people, and we should believe in logic instead of nonsense philosophies. We need to convince people by bringing strong evidence; otherwise, they can include us in their social stigmas staff. Moreover, we need to educate people. We follow good religions, but no religion allows us to harm ourselves for the sake of goodness. We should recognize all factors that are a source of our depression and stress, and then we need to find a solution for it.
This post is my entry for HL Weekly Featured Content Effects of Stigmas. I hope you have enjoyed my post. Thanks!