“Children are a gift from God” that is what people always say. But then you will always hear this statement from someone with 15 kids and expecting 1 on the way and who can’t seem to take care of his family due to how many they are. Yes, children are perfect gifts from God that is the more reason you shouldn’t bring them into this world to suffer.
When I see people who are without kids and then they say the reason is that they are not ready for kids, I tend to see reasons with them. Those are the ones that know what they want, most times when they are ready for kids, their kids tend to enjoy the good things of life. I wouldn’t blame countries that regulate the number of kids a family should have.
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It is too bad that my country does not regulate the number of kids families can have. There was a time when a census was carried out and my dad told me that the country would see to the number of kids families should have to help with better census and family planning. Well that didn’t come to reality. I have seen families with 11 children, sometimes you will be left to wonder if it is a polygamous home, it is not most times as you could find a nuclear family with 11 kids as if it is a football team.
Looking at this, I am not saying having so many kids is wrong but then most times this is usually common with families that can not afford to feed two people, they end up giving birth to lots of kids when they can not take care of 1. When I see situations like this I frown at it. It was more common in old times but it is surprising that people still do that.
Do you believe the government should be involved in regulating the number of kids families should have?
I think the government should get involved in things like this. If there is a rule that every family has a certain number of kids to have. I am certain that people would try to abide by that rule. I have seen a movie where the government made a rule that you should only have 3 kids and if you happen to have more then your child will be taken and given to a family that needs a child. If the government creates a way to regulate the kids families have, I am certain a lot of things will change it might take a while for the rule to be upheld but with time it will.
Will regulating the number of children in a family make things better?
Yes, regulating the number of kids a family has will improve the grand scheme of things. Imagine having lots of kids that you cannot feed, that alone could lead to so many things, starvation, and then the child ends up stealing and the rest. When you have the right amount of kids, you are certain you can care for then there won’t be any problem at all. Looking at the bright side of things no one deserves to suffer so get the number of kids you can have.
I know most times we do not plan for some kids but then family planning could also help.
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