Comparing ourselves with other people is something that I've done for a very long time, and it makes me feel like I'm not doing enough or that I don't even know what I'm doing. At some point, I always learned that the best thing is to make yourself happy. I know that life will work gradually, do not magically happen. We are just supposed to live through life and let life live through us, and not compare ourselves with others. It will set us back in life instead of moving us forward.