Competition is a good way to speed up our growth and develop ourselves, when you see your friends doing great it is not bad to want to be like them and put more effort in things you are doing but the way people tends to go the extreme way when competing with others makes it toxic....
Some people also tend to compete with others on irrelevant things and liabilities, my friend just bought an iphone/car, i must also buy it is a typical example of an unhealthy competition....
Unhealthy competitions are those things you compete for with others that won't add any benefit or value to your life but instead only takes more from you...
Your friend who bought an iphone might be 10 times richer than you and probably use 0.1 percent of his money to buy the phone, it is not a liability to him but you don't even have upto the amount they are selling the phone and you still need to work hard to earn money or even borrow money from others to buy the phone.
The purpose of getting the phone or car is not to help your career but to feel among and to oppress your friends and the society you are using something big, who are you doing? at most few years later, the liabilities you purchased will lose its value and you will be left with nothing
There are healthy competitions you can engage in that motivate you and gives you the strength to work harder...
A good example is hive power, when you see your friends with huge hive power, you can compete with them by trying to achieve it too, this is not just a healthy competition but it add more value and very beneficial to you and your future...
When you see your friends striving hard to reach their goals, join them to reach the top, the goals become easier when people with same mindset work together to achieve it....
Let friends motivate you in a good way, associate with friends with positive mindset, climb the ladder of success together...
Lastly, contentment is the key to happiness, do not overwork yourself or be depressed when things are not going the way you want them
When you don't seem to be able to achieve your target, look at the positive side of it, did you make any progress at all? if yes! then you have a good reason to rejoice...
As long as our today is better than yesterday, as long as we are not stagnant in life, then no point in being depressed, we are moving and that is what really matters💪
Always strive to become a better version of yourself🙂❤️
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