The saddest people indeed tend to be the best comforters because they know how it feels to be miserable and most time these set of people like to heal on their own without disturbing others with their problems.
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I am someone who does not open up to people, not even family members When I am sad or depressed I just ghost everyone until I am fine, Can't remember ever telling any of my family members that I am sad, and even most time people will come to me with their sad stories, those going through heartbreaks, those who have a crush that they are trying to win his or heart and some tired of life because of no money and many others and I would give them a listening ear If only they know that the person comforting them is also sad, probably we would have cried together but I hide my pains all the time.
We can hide it but some close people would always detect something is wrong, just like my eldest sister, She would always ask me if I was fine whenever she looked at me and I would lie that I was fine with a smile and she would say my eyes look so dull, the same with my fiancee, she would ask what is wrong with me but as usual, I am fine, I guess my eyes were saying something else amidst the fake smile.
The only way to hide my pains and sadness from these two people is to make sure they don't see my eyes during my down moments because they can easily tell my mood just from staring at my eyes and they do that often!
A private life is the best but there are some things that we should not keep from our family because we are living a borrowed life and the owner can take it anytime He wishes.
It reminds me of the story of a rich man who died in a fatal road accident, he was full-time in crypto and kept Bitcoin and some other coins, but unfortunately for his family, they do not have access to his wallet password and keys... That was how coins worth thousands of dollars perished without anyone to withdraw them, it was painful but there was nothing that could be done.
This was because he didn't care to show his family how to access his account, even though there is also a risk in letting some people know about your assets, if there is no one person you can trust in your family then you are in the wrong family.
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I am living a private life but I make sure my family knows my assets especially offline properties, as for online assets, there is no way they would be able to cash out everything especially when they are not into crypto and even if they are, they still won't be able to get all the money due to how wide crypto is and some funds are locked in place that only I and burl knows.
I love to keep my relationship private though, I even told my fiancee that she doesn't need to report me to anyone like my family members if she offends me, she is capable of making things work and if she can't then I doubt anyone can because reporting me to people would only infuriate me more.
No posting of everything we do online either, though once in a blue moon that can happen it should not be all the time, you go out, you post, you buy something new, you post, I find that act immature and trying to oppress others, if Life is good to you, you do not need to use it to oppress others.
When it comes to Family, I do not Intrude in their private life, in fact, I just don't care about what they are up to as long as they are fine and happy, the only time I intrude is when I somehow notice something they are doing wrong which I won't ignore because when the problem arises, they won't face it alone.
Just call me Burl.
I am a professional gamer, motivational speaker and a crypto enthusiast
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