Hello everyone, how are you doing? I do hope you enjoyed your weekend? Glad to have you here once again and thank you for checking in my blog.. It’s another interesting topic of week five (5) edition (1) titled INDIVIDUAL GROWTH, it feels really great to take part, this topic took me back to what I called history as I have decided to ditch my past,
I pondered a while meditating on it to be able to recall most of the things that happened to me years back that resulted to some good changes that occurred in my life.
If I may personalize this I would rather talk about me trusting people and the decision to stop trusting, not that trusting in someone or something is bad nope, but what am saying is trusting too much even when trust already taught me a lesson I call it foolishness. What you have is what you give and what you give is what will either bring you good or bad when you give it to the wrong person but as for me I am a no give up guy and I do not relent at all no matter what, even when am on the edge I’m never scared of falling because I know if I fall that thing that pushed down will definitely become a stepping stone for me.
TRUST ISSUES
Trust pushed me down and I decided to make it a stepping stone..This is not love trust am talking but my friendship.
Trust is very expensive but I do give it out freely to almost everyone as long as we are talking and am convinced that we are friends I can free myself to you, what am trying to say is, If I must talk about my personal growth then I will have to talk about the aspect I have changed and what I should not stop doing since I found me growing as a result of my decision towards me and friends.
Am this kind of guy who is very accommodating and accept every behavior of another with calmness . Something happened to me years ago that almost ruined my life and future as a young hustler..If you know how much I hate the word trust right now because it has landed me into regrets so many times and that is why I have decided to Erase the word from my memory but I know it works for some people but as for me it has never worked..If someone that I call a friend more like a brother could betray me then what other reason do I have to keep trusting? What other reason do I have to keep friends if it doesn’t favor me...
Trust was the only reason why I lost my business and my second car because I wasn’t in Nigeria then but I was funding the business right from where I was and hoping it was what I was shown on the cam lol guys play some lugubrious and expensive games, I came back to Nigeria I could not lay hand on anything because everything I saw on cam was not true and a once trusted friend disappeared in the air till date and I couldn’t tell my family all about it I did what I did to support a friend right here while I was a way..
Trusting too much is the only area that I changed from in a longer time and am enjoying it because I no longer get hurt trusting anyone. My Personal Groth started the moment I ditched trust and put a limit to my level of trust for people and became strong from what I learned and from what has happened to me in the past. I realized I shouldn’t trust human like am trusting God or my own self. It might take me a long while to start trusting again both on social media and real life I don’t give out my trust like that anymore since I found trust very expensive so when you see me act weird don’t blame me because I have seen and experienced enough.
In conclusion, since i realized that keeping much company would drag me back as it has always so I decided to cut off some friendships and put an end to the things I do that affects my personal growth, having friends around is good but keeping wrong ones can always lead to regrets in the end I no longer keep friends or accept any kind of person as friend and of course I don’t trust easily anymore like used to, I have been used several times by friends not because I’m dumb but due to my love and respect for friendship and it never favored me in any aspect rather regret, so for me not to keep regretting I told myself that I’m not going to die if I quit friends that doesn’t impact positively to my life and I can boldly say right now I’m doing much better than I was even in the last 3 years that I returned to Nigeria.
My decision for quitting friends in the last three years has helped me a lot in my personal growth and I’m really enjoying how things work right now without no friendship and I’m stepping up again like I was years back, I may not have spoken your mind but mine, quitting friends was the only thing I could do to help my personal growth and I did without hesitation and now I am smiling and enjoying the present life.
Doing what is right and good for me and pleasing myself first right now is what I want to be doing until I’m able to regain my sense of trust.
I do hope you enjoyed reading my article and thanks once more for checking in🤝💯
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