Good day, amazing people of the Hive Blockchain. Welcome back to my blog. It is another edition in the #hivelearners community. I am so delighted to participate in this week's prompt, ghosting.
For someone like me Ghosting is something that will not come to my mind because I am this kind of lady that loves peace of mind so much that if by any means someone wrongs me, I will communicate with the person so that the person involved will know that he or she has wronged me. One thing I don’t like is someone assuming things without verifying them. It came to a point in my life when I realised that no matter how much I try to be at peace with everyone around me, it is not working, which is why I can’t be on everyone’s good page.
At some point in my life, I realised that there is nothing bad in ghosting someone; most times it is the best decision. I have some friends I have shut out of my life. The moment I get to know who they truly are, I have to ghost them in my life. One thing about me is I can’t have a friend who will bite me in the back, and such a person will still want us to be friends. I always tell myself true friends will stick with you, and for those who are fake, there is always a way of shutting them out, and ghosting is one of the options.Life we live in is like a market, so are friends that come into our life; some will stand by you, while some will betray and hurt you.
One thing about me is I return whatever energy you give me. If you ghost me, I ghost you too, and you will stop existing in my life. I will not communicate, text or check up on you; no goodbye. That is ghosting for me. We decide to ghost each other, probably because we are not feeling the energy again; we don’t align at all most times. Some issues are better left undiscussed.
There is a particular girl that used to be my friend. I had to ghost her. Believe me, I will never reverse it. I love the way I am now: a small circle of friends that are real and not having friends that are fake. This young lady was the first girl I vibed with in my place of work, but whenever she sees me with the male colleague around me, she is always bitter. I receive the shock of my life the very day she wakes up to me telling me I am a silent killer. There is no abusive word she didn’t tell me that faithful day. I was so lost because I needed to know what the problem was. I was in so much pain because on normal ground she is not supposed to talk to me because I am her senior colleague at work.
After that incident, I ghosted her in my life. For me, she doesn’t exist. If I ghost anyone in my life, I shut them out completely; nothing will ever bring me back to the person. I don’t ghost, but if I do, there is no going back.
This is my entry on the weekly prompts #hivelearners #hl-w184e1 topic: ghosting.
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