Good day,amazing people of the Hive Blockchain. Welcome back to my blog. It is another edition in the Hive Learners community: new year, new people.
I am so grateful to God that I was able to see the year 2026, and it comes with a lot of decisions – some to cut off unfriendly people and some to stop a particular way of life. Once we enter the year, everyone comes up with a New Year's revelation of how they would like to live their life. I have to sit down this morning and reflect on my way of life last year. I realised that in the year 2025 I was surrounded by fake friends. Coming this year, I tell myself that in 2026 I need to change my circle of friends. New year like this, whatever needs to be renewed, I will do so. New goals need mission, vision and passion.
I am making this big decision because there are some friends in my life I need to change; they are limiting me from growing. Their way of life and the way they think are different from mine. I have tried my best to endure them in the year 2025, and I can’t do it in 2026. I tell myself that if I must grow this year, I have to let go of these friends who don’t add value to my life. What is the need of having friends who are not really there to help me grow?
There is this popular saying: 'Show me your friend, and I will tell you who you are.' That is to say, if you have the right circle of friends, they will grow, support you, motivate and inspire you, but if you surround yourself with the wrong friends, they will limit you from growing. It is possible that they will lead you astray.
If you have been betrayed by someone who you trust and love, the pain is always painful. I have this friend of mine that came this year. I promised myself that I am letting go of that friend because all she brings into my life is sorrow and nothing more. She is the last person I will tell I have an issue, and she will help, but when she has an issue, Cindy, and she comes to me, I will assist her in the little way I can. Being with her last year was a living hell for me.
Coming this year, I made up my mind to let go of most of my friends that are not adding value to my life. I am changing my circle of friends even if it means having only one real friend, and I will have my peace of mind. I will do that this year I deserve the best,year. and I deserve to be happy this year. That is why I will surely change my circle of friends to positive-minded people, people who have the mindset of 'let's grow together'.
This is my entry on the ongoing content #hivelearners #hl-w198e2 topic: new year, new people.
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