Good day, amazing people of the Hive Blockchain. Welcome back to my blog. It is another edition in the #hivelearners community. I am so delighted to participate in this week's prompt, circle of pain.
Pain is something that, once it’s felt, hurts deeply, and in most cases it is very hard to let go of. The pain most times there is this part of us that will want to inflict the same pain on the people around us, more especially if the person didn’t sympathise with us when we were in pain. No matter how well you try to act, as far as you are hurt, you will always find it hard to let go of the pain.
Every human has a way to handle their pain. Some don’t need to hurt someone all in the name of healing, while for some the only way they can heal is by inflicting the pain on someone else. Most of the time when I see people so aggressive, I don’t really blame them because there is a particular pain they are trying to heal, and to them being aggressive will help them heal.
Coming down to this week prompts the hive learners community to ask us to share our thoughts on whether the person should be held accountable. It is very bad to pass trauma from past experience to someone who knows nothing of what you passed through in the past. It is very necessary for us to control our emotions. I know it is not easy. It will be so selfish of me to pass trauma to someone who didn’t wrong me. Whoever passes that trauma to someone else, I see such a person as a psychopath, which is a person who is mentally unstable and doesn’t show remorse.
It is very bad that you want people to experience the same pain you felt when you were hurt by someone else. For crying out loud, why pass trauma to someone who didn’t contribute to your pain? I know it is not easy to overcome trauma, especially when the pain is great. Instead of inflicting it on some innocent people, why not seek help? Instead of inflicting it on someone, I understand that you don’t want to feel pity, but it will come to a point that you will be inflicting the pain on people around you for them to feel the pain you pass through.
They should be held accountable for their action because they are inflicting pain on someone else. They should see a therapist to help them heal. I understand that there are some pains that are so painful, but we should always find a means to forgive ourselves and move forward because the more we keep harbouring it, the harder it will be for us to heal. Always remember that happiness is the key to a long life.
Do you think that someone who passes on trauma should be held accountable?
This is my entry on the #hivelearners #hl-w185e1 topic, circle of pain.
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