Of late, one thing that i know that i have been learning in this life is that life isnt hard, Life Isn't supposed to be hard in any way, this is how we make it seem in our head and it is wrong, Before the way i approached Life , i usually take alot of things serious, if something didnt go according to my plans, i would beat myself over it, thats when overthinking too sets in, i begin to worry too much,k sometimes i start balming myself for alot of things that i shouldnt have in the first place, Slowly im learning that Life is Actually ab out living it, experiencing things and then not putting myself in any kind of pressure.
One thing that i am certain about as a person is the fact that i am learning to live my life more freely and to also enjoy each moment of life as they come,we know that life has its own ups and downs and that is something that nobody can escape from, now instead of seeing every challenge as if it is something heavy,I am learning to see it as just another part of the journey of life, everything doesn't have to be perfect for life to be good.
Will that said there are also somethings that I am trying to unlearn, and one is taking things too seriously, before if somethings didn't fall In place the way that I expected, I would carry that thing in my mind for along time,maybe if a plan doesn't go as planned or something just didn't happen as I had hoped,yeah those kinds of suitation usually borther me like alot.
But of recent, I have been trying to change that mindset,I am learning that somethings really don't work out because they are simply not meant to be , and seriously it doesn't mean that that is the end of the world, it simply just means that something better would happen , life does have a way of making things balance in the long run
Another thing is that I'm realising that worrying about things too much doesn't solve any problems at all, it can actually only make things feel heavier than it is, so instead of me stressing out, I am learning to take steps back and to breathe and to remind myself that everything will somehow eventually work out.
So me learning this slowly is actually helping me to feel light in a way, it's helping me to become more focused on moment of life that actually do matter, instead of worrying about the future that hasn't come, thinking in this manner makes everything to be peaceful and it helps me to appreciate life more easily, whatever that thing is, whether it is being with friends or learning a new thing,or having a quite time to yourself, that small moments are part of what makes life really enjoyable, and then you stop putting unnecessary pressure on yourself.
So I have not completely mastered this yet, but I am still learning the ropes,the difference now is that I am now aware of these things and I am changing it little by little and by learning I can have a more peaceful life.