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Sometimes we get to carry the way worrying about others forgetting that we have to first be okay to make sure the people around us uh also okay
The reality of life sometimes is that the people we worry over might just be fine without you,others., which is a very harsh truth of life.
Choosing ourselves is one of the best things we can do for ourselves because it saves usfrom the emotional stress that comes with the disappointment people give.
Choosing yourself sometimes can be walking away from a toxic relationship, taking yourself out, doing the things you love, and many more.
Sometime ago I had a series of events, and I barely had time for myself and could hardly do anything within my house because most times when I went out on Monday, I wouldn't be back till maybe Wednesday or Thursday, and I was going back for work on Friday till Saturday evening again.
During this period I could barely eat well or sleep well, which I knew wasn't too good. One thing led to another, and I broke down. I had to spend some money on myself for treatment.
And afterwards the lady I work with called me in order for us to inspect the venue where we have an event later this year. Of course I agreed, but I woke up that morning and didn't feel like going out. I quickly texted her to reschedule the appointment.
She got angry and started saying stuff like I have no excuse to cancel, and after all the ranting, I still didn't go because my health is more important to me.
The fact that I have taken some risks for this same lady really got me thinking. Firstly, I imagined if anything happened to me, she would find someone else to do the job.
And the fact that I have made some late-night trips because of this same person, I have had scenarios when I had to go home by 1:00 a.m. because I needed to make sure the things we used for work went back to her office, and since the office is not conducive, I still needed to go home, and she would have gone home, and sometimes she wouldn't even ask how I got home.
So I decided to choose myself and get the rest I needed because health is wealth. If I am not healthy, I won't be able to work, so I decided to choose myself and get the desired rest that I needed at that time.
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