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Week 34 was very exciting, many contestants presented their best writings. The enthusiasm for this week is felt because there are many interesting titles that we will discuss this week starting from the first edition yesterday. As previously announced, that this time we have entered the 2nd edition in this 34th week, and as previously announced, that in the 2nd edition for this 34th week we will discuss about A Little Distruption, which this disorder is often we get in our environment, of course there are attitudes that we must apply so that we are not provoked by excessive emotions and to be able to reduce emotions of course. Here I will try to share my opinion on this matter, so read carefully.
Humans as social beings certainly need interaction between other human beings so that they can understand each other and help each other solve a problem. Of course, in this interaction there are many misunderstandings, insults, defamation, and even misunderstandings between the two people which will provoke emotions between individuals or even groups. This is what makes us hostile to others or vice versa, of course this is very difficult to avoid and we are also very difficult to suppress emotions when other people do it to us. We actually know that excessive emotions will be very bad for us, or the people around us. Therefore, we give in more and even though we are already consumed by emotions, we can still suppress it and think a second time about something as insignificant as a fight caused by a misunderstanding or something like that.
In interacting or even hanging out with my friends, I also often misunderstand or even my friends misunderstand, which provokes my emotions a little because I think they are doing something out of bounds and sometimes I've also done it so make them mad at me. This of course often happens to us wherever we are, but this misunderstanding is intentional and some is unintentional, such as words or actions that offend when we joke or something. Excessive joking is something that often provokes this to happen and it is sometimes unavoidable.
For me, anger is not a way out in solving problems, especially when we get angry for small annoyances or jokes, really we are still children if we respond with anger. In jokes I often make other people angry, and other people also often make me angry with their actions or words, but as long as they don't go so far as to insult our family, I don't think we need to be angry and emotional too much, even though sometimes it can't be endured, we have to find other ways so we don't get carried away by emotions.
Sometimes, some people actually do it on purpose to test how we deal with it and that is really a big test for us, and maturity is what makes us appreciated afterwards.
At one time I was hanging out with my friend who was very nosy, when I first met him he seemed annoying and unfortunately he was much younger than me. I am very often irritated by him, sometimes his jokes really go too far and cannot be tolerated. this actually invites hatred for him not only from me, the people around him are very annoyed with him. In a situation like this, I don't have to be emotional for a long time because since he is still a child, maybe his parents' upbringing is too harsh so he takes it out on the people around him, and things like this we often encounter in our environment, of course.
At that time my patience was really tested, because I thought he was someone I would always meet and he was younger than me, so I decided to vent my emotions protracted, because if I did, then I myself was considered childish, and of course I lost my authority. The only way for someone like my friend to stop bullying us is to give him good advice and explain what he's doing is wrong, patience is the key and this is really very difficult to do. Maybe children who are too naughty are a little difficult to advise, but over time they will understand and believe what we say.
The most important thing is to swallow the emotions deeply and show that we are adults, if we are not able to advise them, we can simply tolerate and forbid them without showing excessive anger. People like that will be happy to serve us who are angry with emotions because their goal is to make us emotional, if we just ignore it, they will feel like they are not considered and they will be awkward themselves. I've done this trick many times and it works, they don't even do their pranks anymore. Things like this are certainly very influential on our character in the eyes of people, if we are provoked by the ignorant actions of small children, then we are not mature enough to hang out with people of the same age or even older than us, which is why they will also sometimes do the same thing as the bad boys, but the difference is that they want to test us instead of doing it for their pleasure.
Making us emotional, angry, or disappointed, of course, does not always come from our friends, but in the family, we are also often irritated by our siblings, our mothers, even our fathers where they often interrupt our playing time just to tell us to do something, don't do what we want, and we even cry because we were too angry with them when we were kids. However, rest assured that what they are doing is for our benefit as well, and if they make us angry by interfering with our playing time, there must be something more important which requires our help to resolve it quickly, and we as people who has grown up must see the good side before we are too consumed by emotions when things like that happen to us.
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