Hello friends!
Have you ever wonder why people get quarreling in an argument and promise themselves never to reconcile?
Have you one day sit back to reflect on the causal effect of argument on the same sex quarreling?
Give me your attention and Let me give us a gist. Pull your seat close while I'm revealing the secret behind this.
The following are the reasons behind this:
- Argument without quarreling: you can agree with me that what that makes people not to quarrel is their consideration of what they will stand to gain or will get from each other after an argument. As such, arguing with an opposite sex give one much chances of not ending up in a quarrel. A man engaging in an argument with a woman have at the back of his mind the strength in women when it comes to talking power, also understand that women are the half that complete the man. Being aware of the fact that women have what the man want would guard against what might have triggered quarrel as such would be at the defensive side.
The reverse is the case with the same sex. During argument, thought like he is a man like me or she is a woman like me easily cause quarrel. One sees that the same sex has nothing to offer other than what he or she already has or know.
By observation, you can agree with me that 80 to 90% of people quarreling in the community are opposite sex. In the school 70% of the opposite sex quarrel without reconciliation.
- attraction: opposite sex by nature attract each other. If engage in a conversation with opposite sex the force of attraction repels some iota of quarrel and keep people with different perspective moving until they both strike a balance.
You see attraction is much possible in opposite than same sex. So having conversations with one you are attracted to, strive is inhibited.
- sense of remorse: sense of remorse is one of the keys that make people of opposite sex to move at length without quarreling. When once one can see his or her wrong doing and act accordingly to apologise salvage one from quarrel.
This is what the magnet do, they will fall off and rush to the pole of attraction.
I was imagining what could be the reason women easily quarrel with the same sex, I brought in the concept of magnetic 🧲 field to conduct an experiment. I brought two maggnets and tried to force same pole together. The more I forced the more force of repulsion exerted. I put more force to bring them together and I noticed even though I succeeded to bring the same magnetic poles together, they cannot attract each other and immediately I remove the force they readjusted thesemselves and got attracted to different pole.
With this experiment and observation I could draw conclusion and affirm that, for the subject quarrel which has a high tendency of causing violence, hate speech, abuse and lot more to be dealt with, opposite sex education, opposite sex friendship and opposite sex relationship should be encouraged the most than same sex.
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