As Young Men, We Get a lot of Pressure During Adolescence

Today's topic is very interesting and I have many special things to write on it as we know that the birth of a boy is most celebrated in the house and time passes. And when the boy starts to grow up, then what is the first thing that we get pressure from, so here is something that I will discuss with you all, especially this thing that we have a lot of in Asian countries.

It is often seen that when a boy grows up, his parents take important decisions in his life without asking him, especially the wishes of the father, he tells his son here that you have now To become an engineer even if the boy has no intention of becoming an engineer at all and he is admitted in an engineering college and then when his result is bad and inside the house he is called bad and that's it.

It is said that easily life is mixed, that's why there is no interest in studies, so here I would like to say that when a person does not have his own interest in the work, then the person is never in a good way in his life.

I am going to share with you the life of one of my cousins here. He was a boy who was so intelligent in ninth grade and he studied in Lasalle and as soon as he got good marks and was a very intelligent boy but If his marks were even 45 out of 50, his father used to get very angry with him and that's why the boy who was living in a lot of anxiety and depression before he was very used to be very anxious and then slowly.

He went into depression and then what happened to him is very disturbing after some time when the boy saw his father beating him for low marks So the boy became very sad and started smoking cigarettes and that's how we know that cigarettes are not good for our health. ended and he also left his studies and his attitude towards his father was also very wrong,

So the result of being more strict was that the boy who is not even able to pass the matriculation, the boy who used to be so intelligent and he used to be talked about being more intelligent in the whole school, so it was a loss, even when you tell him to do something without asking anyone, he doesn't have the heart, so life as it is is totally bad.

Then after that, when the boy who is here gets his degree on the advice of his father and it is a fact that there are no jobs here in our country at all, the boy gets his degree every three to four years. He goes to the office, he goes into every industry, but he is not given a job because unless we have a big recommendation here in our country, we cannot get a job here,

So a poor son who has there is no such recommendation because of which he keeps going for a job and doesn't get a job, then again the boy who is here goes into a lot of depression, some boys tolerate this thing here. And some boys who are boys start smoking cigarettes and some boys who are boys start drinking at the same age and their youth is wasted and their future life is also wasted.

It would be better to let a person make his own decisions. If a boy who wants to become a doctor should be allowed to become a doctor. He will not be happy and as soon as the boy grows up here, he does not get a job, so he starts getting a lot of pressure from home that he will start earning money. Your father has made you so big by earning.

Even if the house is not earning anything, this thing is very heart-wrenching. The boy is working hard but he is not getting a job. It is also said that how long will one eat free bread. Then one realizes that this is where the real life begins.

When a boy, despite working hard, cannot get something in this way and give it to his family, he has to listen to the words of his family and then another life begins.

It happens when a boy reaches 20 years of age, the whole society gives him mental pressure that he has reached the age of marriage, when will he get married, then this thing puts us in more depression because getting married means here in our country, a boy should have 30-40 lac rupees. If he doesn't have it, then a boy here can't get married.

When a boy is not getting a good job on time, how can he save so much money for his family. If he will get married, then people here take a very stick decision, they think of going to other countries, especially the way Dubai is and all the countries like that, most of the boys here in our country who currently,

They are going to Dubai and doing labor work because of this tension that when there is no money, this world will not respect us. There are more difficulties than anyone can imagine.

Then after that the real life begins, some boys bear this pressure and leave this country and some boys get addicted to drugs and some boys start smoking cigarettes. If there are, life goes on in the same way because in depression the mind of a person needs peace and when a person is intoxicated, his mind goes into peace. becomes addicted to drugs, these are all the things that his parents and all the people in the society we live in will have to think about.