so it has to be done by the pregnant women themselves.

And in most cases Sasu Maa can't help as her dignity will take a hit. Also, Nanad are either too busy, or young, or raise with too much comfort zone or just don't care.

It's like there r unwritten rules to make the motherhood difficult.

For a portion of population your content may stand 100 percent true, but I won't agree with it as a representative of the whole nation.

I added disclaimer while I may agree with some parts of your comment, but I highly believe that women of Pakistan ain't gonna accept what's happening to them. They don't even share their problems with their parents and siblings so I can be sure that they r gonna accept the truth. They also try to hide it to save their HOME which is most cases isn't worth saving at all even FOR THE SAKE OF THE KIDS.