Life of a Certified Loner
While growing up as a young guy, I always found it very fun and cool to get close to people. I always wanted to meet new people and build relationships with them by getting to know more about them and cling to them.
But while growing older and wiser,I began to realize that, at some point, it's not really worth it to get too close or clingy with people.
At some point, I got to know that most of these people aren't really worth being called friends or even family.
Some of them are in competition with you, some envy and just get jealous of you for no reason,some of them are really fake, and the pain of it all is that you can't even really tell who is real or fake. Amidst most of these people,.
Because they show fake love, and I'm literally speaking in general. be it family members or friends.
This alone has led many into their early graves in our world due to depression and heart break.
You don't even know who to trust,depend on,talk to when you're down, or when you need a shoulder to lay on. You don't even know who is who anymore.
It can be so sucky and crazy how you open up to people nowadays and end up hearing it from other people's mouths out there.
Or some of them would even use your past to hunt and hurt you with time and might even end up making you more depressed because it's always crazy and hard to get over some of this, weighing you down all by yourself most of the time.
Because no one loves to be judged and pressured by their past issues; rather, we all need help to get out of them.
But it's just so funny how lots of young people find it really hard to open up to anyone anymore, rather they prefer to keep them to thier selves.
Which led most of them into taking hard drugs because they feel it takes their pain away for awhile and makes them feel better and relieved for the moment, committing suicide, being bitter and rude, and lots more.
Many of the youth find it easier to be a certified loner and keep lots of things to themselves, which isn't good for them or their mental health.
Because life isn't smiling, keeping things to yourself will only hurt you more,make you feel less of yourself,make you feel unloved,etc.
And the fact that most of the people facing this are mostly young people who are getting exposed widely
To life at a very young age.
Which isn't good enough. Cause, i have been in those shoes before, so I can say there are lots of disadvantages that come with being a loner.
It's has a very large effect and a dangerous impact on the life of a person, which might affect one's life for life.
But what do you have most of them do?? Cause, I sincerely loved being a loner at some point in my life.
I was a big certified loner, and that was because I hated people due to the past experiences I had with some of them.
But in the end, we can't do it on our own because we need one another to survive life.
Cause the truth is, we can never do it on our own or all by ourselves; we need one another to survive some part of life.
And the funny part about the whole thing, despite all these tribulations, you'd still never get out of life alive😂💀.
So just try to be careful and smart in all you do and also be watchful, because there are lots of snitches out there with wild thoughts towards you.
Stay Safe and Strong
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