Hy everyone, I hope you all are having an awesome day. It's one of the amazing event again on hive learners community where we get to learn from other’s ideas and I will be sharing something that occurred to me which resulted into rejection. It is relationship and work rejection.
How it started
I met a beautiful lady by name Zainab at a tutorial centre after my graduation from secondary school on the first day of meeting her she turned down on me in public gathering. I didn’t meet her for any reason but just to know her name and that’s all but she turned me down as if I spoke to deaf ears.
You know as a young guy, no much shame at all not even a drip because everyone around were also guys and few ladies and I couldn’t see the difference between me and them in terms of been shy about a woman’s rejection. So I wiped my face with my handkerchief like a play boy but not one and left.
Not only this type of rejection had occurred to me. Another was when I got posted to my place of primary assignment for service. All my hope was to work in where I and get paid in addition to my state allowance.
On getting to the location of over 4 hours journey, in my mind was when I got there I will be accepted and start work immediately because that was where I wanted to serve and I had already manipulated ways to get there after paying some amount.
On getting there, I was welcomed with smiles and got rejected as well. I felt my world has ended because I can’t imagine sitting in a bus for 4 hours only to go and be rejected when I found out how I could collect back my money, the only means available will lead to issues but I decided to forget about it.
How to cope during a rejection period
If you have ever been rejected before, do not panick on what to do next, do not think much. Just go home, take your best meal, best drink and best sleep.
When you get to wake up, think of what next to do next as an alternative that will make you better.
Do not spend time thinking why you were rejected especially if you have fulfilled all righteousness.
God knows better.
Notes for the rejected ones
I found out that the lady that rejected me later became my best friend she came herself this time to apologize because I was the mathematics guru then and she wasn’t to strong in math. We will chat late night till 4: 00 am in the morning.
The place of service I was rejected latter came looking for me but I got better place that is less stressful compared to opinions of previous corps member who served there.
So everything is for a reason.
Stay strong, thanks for reading, do have an awesome day.
