I use to beat myself hard about how others feel about me but when I realized that we can't see things thesame way, I got liberated. I take corrections where necessary and move.

Smile.. for those who hold onto their opinions like it's a law, I don't bother myself much staying on the subject arguing with them. You believe what you believe, I believe what I believe. Just that it becomes frustrating sometimes if they happen to be our parents or bosses at work.