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If I had the chance, I wouldn't remove every challenge from my children's lives; if I want the best for them, I know that making life too easy for them could do more harm than good. Challenges are what shape us to who we are today; they teach us how to be patient, persistent, and how to bounce back when things are not falling into place in our life the way we want it. Thinking about the times in our lives when we face a tough situation. Was it easy? No, actually it wasn't. But how much did we learn from these challenges that came our way? How did it make us someone stronger in life? Those challenging moments are often the ones that shape our character into what we are today and show us what we are really made of. Without them, we will not know the need to navigate the real world; this world is full of challenges and battles that we need to teach our children how to face.
If our parents make life easy for us, we may not understand what the real world is all about, so we make life as easy as possible for our children. They might feel safe and comfortable for a while, but they would be unprepared when life eventually throws some difficulties in their way, and life always does. I would rather raise a child who is prepared to handle anything that comes in their way, not an unprepared child. Of course that doesn't mean I would want my children to struggle, which is unnecessary, but to make them understand that life is not easy; it's a battle world. My role as a parent would be to strike a balance for them.
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I would not put my children into overcoming situations without assisting them, or would I remove every challenge from their way. Instead, I would support them and guide them for what they needed to overcome the challenges by themselves. Life is full of teachable moments, and sometimes the best lesson comes from facing these challenges and coming out to become someone stronger.
I also know that if a child learns how to face their challenges in life, it really helps them to develop boldness in themselves, and the experiences they gather from their challenges are what people can't buy with money. In conclusion, the best way we can use to assist our children is by preparing them for these challenges, not by covering them away from them. And if we are protecting and guiding them away from these challenges, we may eventually cause them more harm than good in their lives.
So, I would not say no to challenges; I would say yes to letting my children face the challenges to make them grow, to learn, and to develop what they need in life, and as their parents, I will always guide them, support them, and encourage them, and I would also trust in their ability to handle whatever things that come their way.
This is my entry for Hive Learners Featured Content Week 132 Edition 02