Conflict is a part of life. I think we all go through this phase. In life, I have seen many people quarreling with each other but then I used to be young. And it was considered wrong for me to intervene in the fight of two people. But it was a few months ago when my aunt and her sister had a fight. I was sitting with them in one of my aunt's house. The fight between the two started with a small matter. And then that small talk turned into an argument. This was not a hand-to-hand fight.
It is said that when a fight starts over a small matter, the devil puts a small spark, which later turns into a fire.
Anyways, At first I thought that it was a fight between the sisters and it would get better by itself after a while but I was wrong as the two of them were arguing more and more.
When I tried to sort out their fight, their reaction was very strange, which I did not expect at all. I was silenced by being told that I am still a child and I don't need to speak between these two sisters.
When I told them,
"This can be covered in a good way, so why do you two have to fight?"
So,
I got this kind of response again
"We have already told you not to speak in our matter."
"If you have read and written, it does not mean that you should sweep your philosophies on us."
"If you are young, stay young, there is no need to be our mother."
And I was like "huhhh, Why am I doing my insult here when both of them are not willing to listen to my words."
Both of them were fighting but their anger was coming out on me. And then I felt better leaving room. Because they were not ready to listen my words.
"I was thinking that if you want to know what a man is like, see him in anger. If a person has control over his anger, he can easily overcome every difficult phase."
But you know that when I tried to end the quarrel of these two sisters, I did not get a good response from them, but after some time they both came out laughing and both apologized to me for their behaviour. Seeing both of them smiling together, it seemed that the misunderstandings within them were removed.
So the lesson I learned in this incident is that sometimes there is no need for a third person to intervene in a fight between two people because sometimes two people are enough to settle their conflict.
And listen!!
come here, I've something to say in your ear....that
"Believe me, an insult for no reason feels very bad, very awful."
Signing out!!