The Bible instructs us to do good unto all men, as stated in Galatians 6:10. This commandment motivates me to offer help and make sacrifices for others. While most people show appreciation for the help they receive, there have been instances where the response is less than favourable. In such situations, I am reminded of 1 Peter 2:20-21, which encourages us to return good deeds even when evil is done to us, as we are called by God to do good.
The question or topic from Hive Learners is Un-Favoured
Have you ever done something for someone and they repaid you with ingratitude? Even downplaying the sacrifices you made to mean nothing? How did it go for you? And how did this experience change you? Are you still close to that person?
A Different Perspective
Fortunately, I cannot recall a specific instance where my efforts were blatantly downplayed or met with ingratitude. However, I have a perspective on this that I would like to share. When we encounter situations where our efforts are not appreciated or are even met with hostility, it is essential to remember our purpose. Our calling to do good is not dependent on the reaction or gratitude of others. Instead, it is a command from God and a reflection of our character.
The Impact on Relationships
While I cannot speak from personal experience about the aftermath of such a situation, I can share my thoughts on how I would approach it. If I were to face a situation where my efforts were downplayed or met with ingratitude, I believe it would undoubtedly affect the relationship with that person. However, it would also serve as a reminder to approach helping others and making sacrifices with the right mindset. Our motivation should always be rooted in love and obedience to God, rather than the expectation of gratitude or reciprocation.
Self-Reflection and Sharing
Although I have not experienced this specific situation, I have learned a valuable lesson from reflecting on the topic. Our actions and mindset should always be aligned with our purpose and calling. This alignment ensures that we can maintain a positive attitude and continue to do good, even when faced with challenges or negative responses.
While I have not shared this particular experience with others, as it has not occurred, I believe it is crucial to share our experiences and the lessons we have learned. Sharing provides an opportunity for self-reflection, growth, and connection with others who may have had similar experiences.
Connecting with the Hive Community
I want to share this perspective on Hive to connect with others who might have had similar experiences and to encourage a positive and purpose-driven approach to helping others. I am not seeking advice or support, as I have not personally experienced this situation. However, I hope that sharing my thoughts will encourage others to reflect on their experiences and approach challenges with a positive and purposeful mindset.
Conclusion
While I have not experienced ingratitude or downplaying of my efforts, reflecting on this topic has reinforced the importance of maintaining a positive and purpose-driven approach to helping others. Our calling to do good is not dependent on the response of others, but rather on our obedience to God and alignment with our purpose. Sharing our experiences and perspectives can encourage self-reflection, growth, and meaningful connections with others.
Who am I?
My name is Hiro a loving husband, a Hiver since 2017, a world explorer, a Hive marketer, a cat lover, and a proud Christian of the MCGI.
I discovered Hive back in 2017 when I was doing my research. My goal on Hive is I want to use the stake power up to be able to help the community. I prayed to God to help me to be able to become a cheerful giver to anyone who is lacking like food, medicine, and livelihood. Hope you can follow my journey