Crying is one good way to relieve stress from anyone who sees himself in the situation. Growing up in a society that sees a man as the strongest we have come to see men who refuses to show their hurt in anything what you just keep seeing is the man reacting with attitudes or expression like a deep sigh or deep breath out. And I will say that to a large extent we have recorded men who fall and die and when check it will be linked to a heart attack.
Few years back when two persons died in my husband's family, his uncle and the Aunty. It was serious trying moment because of many situations around us then. The late Aunties husband never bothered to listen to the people around who was telling him to be a man. He cried so much to the point that many people joined him to cry. His second son who never cried all of a sudden collapsed, his sister who was preparing for wedding and I had to rush him to the clinic. On getting there I insisted for him to cry out the pain. It took long minutes of waiting for him to cry. When he was crying his system began returning to normal.
Many men just want to present themselves to be strong while deep within they are going slowly. We leave in a society that have placed lots of Borden on the masculine gender. Some men shows little or no care to their family because they have been consumed by the weight of the challenges present at home. And some women who do not care about what happens with their husbands do not offer helping hands to them.
There are organizations that is established and fully funded that talks about things that related to women which also encourage women to speak up, but I have not come to see that of men anywhere. Men do not have people that call them around to speak to them, this is also the reason that we get to see men who behave as if they are Alpha and Omega. Men really need to be taught on how to communicate what they go through and the right people they need to do that with. Men's Circle needs to be formed in our world today, many women are widows today because of having men who take up too much.
Furth more, men should be taught to take things easy on themselves, I say this to mean a lot of men have been lured into unholy things or hustling so much because of this quest to meet up with the ruling class. Because a friend bought the reigning car in town you also want to buy same. Some of them have gone as far as putting their hands into terrible things. Women are taught to be patient with life so also men should be taught same too.
Parents should also learn how to also focus on helping their male children start up in life than allowing them to do all the struggle alone. They should learn to keep assets which will save as a take off for them. My response to today's prompt. Thank You for reading