Happy new week to everyone in this amazing community, it is such a thing of gladness to see myself back to be with you all. Things have not really been working as I planned but in all I give God all the glory. Motherhood is not for the faint hearted at all.
For this week I will be looking at the topic at hand, how I look at myself and what people perceive me to be.
The way we rate and react to things are just based on our level of exposure. Many times it is so difficult for one to see all about himself. I always see myself as someone who is reserved. Reserved in the sense that I don't talk in the public,sometimes when discussing with friends I will just say in a sarcastic manner. One of my friends will just give me this bombastic side eye.
Many people who we have interacted for a while do not believe even for a minute that I am that reserved girl. Some times I wonder why they will even think that way. I see myself as one strong girl, this kind of hustler that can do anything good just to have that money.
Funny enough, people I have come to meet some few years back never believe that I am that strong girl who the sun feels like air conditioner when I am out to get something done.
One of the days I just felt like proving my point then I took up one difficult task. The task was to prepare for for some days which I will be paid in full for it. Initially when I get such contract I get to give it out but they don't handle it the way I really want it to be handled. After that event I got lots of compliments but I paid for it because as a new Mom who do not have much people to help me around and my baby is this kind of person that won't even let you be.
To my point, proving a point in anyway have not helped in anyway. People should be left to think what they just want to think because they have their mind and everyone have a way they think about things. So, in as much as I cannot enter their minds to put check on what they think it is known of my business either.
One other thing I make sure I do is to be sure that what am doing is the right thing. When you are on the right lane people's opinion does not matter so much. There are those who never believe in what another have to offer. Another thing is to be consistent with my fans, when people get to find out the kind of person one is over time they don't have the choice than to just believe. This is why consistency is very important, there are those who are any colour that comes around them. By so doing you won't be taken so serious.
In all, time is the reviewer of things, if one is claiming what he is not, just give a little time the real person will be manifested. Thank you so much for reading through my blog