Sometimes I do wonder why I just can't get mad at some persons for too long, it's just like I'm mad at myself when I'm angry with them and when I see that, I just give my self a peep talk and that's it, I'm okay ready to accept them and the mistakes they make. Getting angry is my hobby 🤫, yes you read that right, but hey, don't expect me to be angry at you for a whole day, nah, that's not me, I don't have that time at all.
I have said something about me having anger issues in time pass but now I see a lot of improvement in myself and I'm really happy about it. Then when I was little, I get can get angry easily but not for no reason of course, especially when you say I did something that I didn't, that hurts me big time and I just don't want to talk to you anymore so you won't do that to me again. But as time went by I realized that I was the one feeling so much pain anytime I'm angry at someone and I started learning how to tolerate people more.
My anger issues was just so much that once you tell me that I get angry too much I will agree with you and try to apologize because I know I overdo it sometimes. I was privileged to live with different people at different point in my life and I met different people with different personalities, some are just so super annoying and others are just calm and when I'm around the calm ones, it's then I know that I get angry too easily and it has helped me to work on myself but sometimes when I talk to you, you might feel that I'm angry but I'm not, I'm just used to saying words that way and I'm still working on that.
Yes, I do have some people that I just can't stay angry at for too long before now, because now I don't stay angry with anyone for too long. Like I said before, I don't have such time to waste anymore, I was little then and I did not know the value of time so I wasted it a lot, but those days I wasted, has made me to be who I am today, so I think it was all for my good after all.
I have just three people I don't stay angry at for too long...
My Father, thinking of it now makes me laugh, haha, this man can be super annoying and funny at the same time and I just love him for both. My dad is one of the most fun person you will want to know but then he can be very troublesome and strong headed sometimes but then I just can't get angry at him for too long because he won't even let me 😂. Trust me when I say you will love that man when you see him, I think I'm like him in that aspect, hehe.
My sister 😁, she is my best friend too, I can't be angry at her for nothing less than an hour, that is even long but let's leave it at that. I hardly get angry at her because she understands me very well, so she can easily avoid me getting angry at her except the day when she does not want me to get away with what I did and those days still end up well, hehe.
My brother, he is my paddy too, in fact we are all friends in my family, we are not just siblings but best friends so it's hard to get angry at each other not to talk of being angry with anyone for too long. We do have days when we have really big arguments and we don't talk to each other, but then one thing must surely make us talk to each other again as if nothing happened before.
Well, like I said these are the people I don't stay mad at for too long before but now I have been learning to apply that to everyone that I come to know because I believe there is a whole lot of better things to use my time for than staying angry with someone for a long time. And if by chance I do, that means I forgot to let the person that I'm no longer mad at them because I have forgiven them since we parted.