Hello friends,I hope you are all fine and doing great. This Post is my entry to Weekly Featured Content in the #Hivelearners community.Today's topic to write Un-Favoured.
In today's age of kindness, if you help someone, they forget your help. To this day people who have asked me for help or approached me for anything, I have reached out to help them. But I only get insults from them later. I would reach out to him when he called for help but he never came when I needed help and I was under a lot of pressure. So now whatever I do to help them, I don't expect any help from them.
No one came to help me in bad situations. So I leave it to Allah to help me, whatever He does will be best for me.
I have taken care of my friends and relatives in every way, I have given them time for everything. I have never thought ill of anyone in my heart and never will. In my heart I never feel bad for anyone nor do I think of hurting anyone. Another quality I think is that I don't lie. If I have no work to do, I forbid it here, but I am not lied to. So I have adopted one thing in my life that whatever I do I don't have to take anything in return, whatever I do I do it for the sake of Allah and when I need someone's help. So I seek help from Allah Almighty, He makes a resource for me.
Once a friend asked me for some money and said I need it I will pay you back very soon. At that time I had no money but still I helped him. I borrowed money from another friend to help me and said I will pay you back as soon as possible. And gave it to another friend. He took the money and thanked me and said I will pay you back in a couple of months. Well after a few months the person I borrowed the money from had an emergency and asked me for the money back. I tried to contact another friend but this friend was not connected. At that time I was very embarrassed and I gave him money from my pocket and said, "Dude, it took time to collect money, I returned the money taken from him because he helped me in bad times." If I ever need help later, I can ask him for help again, so I didn't spoil my relationship with him. But this friend didn't pay me back on time, which caused me a lot of trouble. I had to face embarrassment and then I gave up hope of taking money from him.
I didn't have any money tension I just regret that when he needed money for his work he asked for help and I helped him I didn't have it but I still helped him with someone else. After taking money from him but he did not return the money on time, I have not contacted him since then. He returned the money to me after a long time. I asked him for help a couple of times but he didn't give me a good response. Since then I lost my trust in him and stopped expecting any kind of help or any kind of hope from him. The person who used to think only of himself, so I no longer have any relation with him.
We trust people very quickly and indeed some people are trustworthy who help you in every difficulty but because of one or two people in the middle you cannot blame everyone. So I don't have any hope from anyone now, whatever they do is just to help a friend, I don't want anything from them. Just one person has disgraced so much, after that, you don't want to put any hope in anyone.
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