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and even it might appear in your kids life which is something worse to even imagine. But that's karma, there's another thing that pain often goes from one generation to another
Like if you've been through a traumatic experience in life you'd pass that on to your kids? It happens in some cases when you don't move on and take it over your mind
There's going to be a point and situation where you'll hurt your closed one with that pain.
Passing on Trauma from one to another
I've had a traumatic past and been through a lot of shit on my own and there was stages where I used to yell at others, be annoyed so easily and harsh on closed ones even though they did nothing to me
Still I was always frustrated and had anger issues because of what I've been through.
Sometimes I used to have nightmares the exact same moments I couldn't even remember after years.
You know people have a different memory of the same moment, for you it could be traumatic and for someone who gave you that memory might've nothing like they don't even remember that
you pass your pain through you
You start to hurt others in way you can't imagine like yelling and being angry to someone else who did nothing to you only gonna make them hate you more
Even though you're in a bad state but they don't know when you yell and show anger it'd just give them a bad memory for like ever
The pain cycle will continue from one to another, it's the environment that matters around you that effects your close one
Grow up in a broken family and you'd realise what kind of person you'd never become.
There's only one way to break pain cycle
You're not supposed to wish for an easy time for yourself instead wish to become strong to bear all that pain
And go through breakable pain, live in a broken family
You'd grow up and becone the best version of yourself
And it's only because you know how badly it fuck your mental state that you won't wish that to happen to your kid
So to stop that pain from passing onto another generation you'd know how to deal certain situations in life when you're adult, when you're husband and than a father
Only then you become a man when you learn to live with the pain and use that pain to open your eyes and mind like "I was hurt because of this, so I won't do the same thing".
Wrapping Up...
I guess I've cleared my point, it isn't easy to live with the pain but it becomes more better to become a better version of yourself when you improve yourself instead of taking out and lashing on otbers.
I'd love to know what do you think about it and what's your opinion on this. Share it in the comments.
fin.